u/jayjello0o

Blessed that we have a playful marriage, and I feel cherished. I feel comfortable around my Husband. Last night he passed gas on the couch lik twice with me closeby on the other end. Despite my dramatic emojis up top, I only heard it. My knee-jerk reaction was to feel disrespected. How dare you 😤 all over me. Sometimes I actually laugh when he does that...just not when its inches from me....I didn't respond. He kinds joked quietly and then I went and brushed my teeth. We wound up having a great night if you know what I mean. I picked up a book, and anytime I do that he lures me away.

That passive aggressive people pleaser in me is nagging...you were mean last night and punished him by not joking about the gas passing. My rationale was I am not gonna reward that. If somebody shoved me for fun and wanted me to laugh I wouldn't. ​I can veer off too quickly into shaming others for "bad behavior" without zooming out. of my ego. I am grateful he feel comfortable...enough to do that in front of me, its the on me part that has me like, no.

Going on a week-long trip and airbnb-ing. Was thinking of putting bottles in a cooler for daytime and just taking all the supplies to make/wash them.

Any hacks or advice?