u/jellyprostate

My (16F) parents divorced about a month ago. I’m going over my mother’s new house for the first time tomorrow and I’m really on edge and don’t know what to pack? Can anyone help

my (16F) parents have divorced recently, it’s messy, it’s shit, yada yada, but there’s nothing i can do on that front. however, i’m just so confused on what to do now. My plan is to stay 1 week over my dads, 1 week over my mams, and so on. but wtf do i do with all my STUFF??? like i collect a lot of cds, dvds, and books, but my main issue is, wtf do i do with my clothes???
like does anyone have a solution to this? i dont have a lot of clothes as im not materialistic at all and will just buy 1 of smth i want. like i have 1 black cami top, 1 white shirt, etc. what am i supposed to do? i have like a total of 3 pairs of shorts and 2 pairs of jeans, i practically have little to no clothes. so what do i do when i’m over one of my parents house and have nothing to wear? my family has always been financially unfortunate and we can’t afford to buy me new clothes.

overall i’m just confused. this is at a really inconvenient time of my life especially as im starting college in like 3 weeks. i’m autistic and struggle with change and i don’t understand how i am supposed to adapt my life to suit this new lifestyle.

my (16F) parents have divorced recently, it’s messy, it’s shit, yada yada, but there’s nothing i can do on that front. however, i’m just so confused on what to do now. My plan is to stay 1 week over my dads, 1 week over my mams, and so on. but wtf do i do with all my STUFF??? like i collect a lot of cds, dvds, and books, but my main issue is, wtf do i do with my clothes???
like does anyone have a solution to this? i dont have a lot of clothes as im not materialistic at all and will just buy 1 of smth i want. like i have 1 black cami top, 1 white shirt, etc. what am i supposed to do? i have like a total of 3 pairs of shorts and 2 pairs of jeans, i practically have little to no clothes. so what do i do when i’m over one of my parents house and have nothing to wear? my family has always been financially unfortunate and we can’t afford to buy me new clothes.

overall i’m just confused. this is at a really inconvenient time of my life especially as im starting college in like 3 weeks. i’m autistic and struggle with change and i don’t understand how i am supposed to adapt my life to suit this new lifestyle.

My friend gifted me a pot of casa blanca oriental lilies. most are in pretty good shape but honestly this is the first time i have ever actually owned a potted plant and since they’re from a store that doesn’t exactly specialise in plant care, i have no idea what to do.
some of the flowers are more faded than others, do i deadhead them? they don’t exactly look dead but they’re drooping and very dull in colour
do i cut off the leaves like you would with a bouquet? or do i leave the leaves there?
and how do i water them? is there a specific technique? i know to water them if the soil feels dry, but do i mist them? or use a watering can?? or even a cup??
also, do i need fertiliser? should i move it to a different pot with more dirt? and do i need to “feed” it? i’m very confused.

P.S. i have autism and struggle with instructions, hence why i have so many questions, i need thorough answers :(

My friend gifted me a pot of casa blanca oriental lilies. most are in pretty good shape but honestly this is the first time i have ever actually owned a potted plant and since they’re from a store that doesn’t exactly specialise in plant care, i have no idea what to do.
some of the flowers are more faded than others, do i deadhead them? they don’t exactly look dead but they’re drooping and very dull in colour
do i cut off the leaves like you would with a bouquet? or do i leave the leaves there?
and how do i water them? is there a specific technique? i know to water them if the soil feels dry, but do i mist them? or use a watering can?? or even a cup??
also, do i need fertiliser? should i move it to a different pot with more dirt? and do i need to “feed” it? i’m very confused.

P.S. i have autism and struggle with instructions, hence why i have so many questions, i need thorough answers :(