I’m single again and I’m getting back out there. It’s so fun to unicorn but it’s so lonely sometimes. What are your tips to protect your heart on your drive home after a good night?
I met my partner and it was open for a while until he asked to close things. I said sure, I would give it a go with the intention that we progress back to ENM together. We were both unicorns when we met, I was so excited for our future. We complimented each other like ying and yang in a lot of ways, and our sex was incredible.
No progress was ever made on his side to deepen our trust, dip our toes back in, or be more communicative about things. I went on a few dates with people but he always got super anxious and I ended up calling things off which felt awful. It got to the point where it felt like he wanted a monogamous wife but didn’t want to show up for me in the same ways as a husband would. I ended things and I feel awful about it but I know I’m doing the right thing for me.
I am still processing things and need a few more days to get it together… but I also can’t help feeling sad to be solo again. As someone who loves love… this feels pretty lonely. I’d love any advice, support, or inspiration for my fellow solos out there <3