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About 4 years ago I was in a car accident, I was at a pretty high speed and the car was destroyed but somehow I walked away complete uninjured and went straight home after talking to the police and getting it towed. At the time I was pretty amazed by this but didn't think much about it ever since.

My life has had it's ups and downs since then but overall I think I'm doing pretty good even though it's been a wild ride, sometimes things just don't seem to feel "real" though and I was thinking if somehow it would theoretically be possible I actually got seriously injured in that crash and everything since is just some hallucinations of a comatose mind...

I'm not going to give this much thought but it's a pretty wild and interesting idea isn't it?

About 4 years ago I was in a car accident, I was at a pretty high speed and the car was destroyed but somehow I walked away complete uninjured and went straight home after talking to the police and getting it towed. At the time I was pretty amazed by this but didn't think much about it ever since.

My life has had it's ups and downs since then but overall I think I'm doing pretty good even though it's been a wild ride, sometimes things just don't seem to feel "real" though and I was thinking if somehow it would theoretically be possible I actually got seriously injured in that crash and everything since is just some hallucinations of a comatose mind...

I'm not going to give this much thought but it's a pretty wild and interesting idea isn't it?

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I (23 years old) am not a physically intimidating person and I tend to have a pretty relaxed and friendly demeanor, I recently started working at a new place and as I got to know my coworkers I noticed there was this younger guy (about 19) who tried to act badass and make fun of everything, I mostly ignored this person and even occasionally laughed at some of the jokes since I didn't really feel offended (even though I think that was the intention), at one point this guy even told me I have "crazy eyes" to which I replied it was probably true. This guy eventually found out I was ex military and started making fun of that too which I mostly ignored, yesterday though this guy threatened to scratch my car and I replied by saying if he does so he might get scratched too, after this he called me out to "fight outside" and that I "didn't know who he was", I told him I didn't particularly want to fight him but if he insisted on the invitation it could be arranged and laughed it off, after this he didn't talk anymore and I kept interacting with him in a strictly professional way, I noticed he seemed to become more polite even though I'm pretty sure he is still making fun of me in my back (once again unsure if im supposed to feel offended by this?).

My question is, would you interpret not wanting to fight when provoked as weakness? I'm pretty sure I would beat this guy up if he touched me or my car but otherwise I don't think I would be willing to lose my job/be arrested/risk injury for someone I didn't even know existed 1 month ago. I'm also unsure if I'm supposed to feel offended by the unfunny jokes but I'm pretty sure I ain't, it is my understanding though that many people seem to interpret this as being a pussy, in my opinion I just don't care enough to do anything, either way what do you think?