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I love my husband very much.🩷🥹

I feel safe and happy with him. He loves me very much, cares about me, and bears all my problems and my mood change. 🩷

He never made me sad. He was trying to please me with everything My love for him made me see him as the best man in the world 🥹🥹

I love very much. He also pampers me and does everything I want and does not refuse any request from me. And he cares about all my occasions and gives me gifts without me asking him ❤️☺️ love you so much Kenan

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u/Sharp_Standard7863 — 13 hours ago

The concept of 5 love languages is fake and should be forgotten

How in the actual hell could there only be 5? My number 1 love language is in no way categorizable by any of them. If you can put a word to what you feel, then congrats, you feel that way. You don’t have to be packaged neatly in a box to be understood or loved. Shutting it down to only 5 possible categories is erasing peoples uniqueness and self expression. How can you tell me there are more than 10 people in the entire world and we only have 5 love languages?

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u/eeeegh — 14 hours ago

They're overthinking the dropping birth rate problem in the U.S.: we are just more honest about being selfish now.

This isn't a bad thing, either. Think of how many people have been made miserable through feeling pressured to have kids. Those who shouldn't have had kids wind up divorcing and leaving the family anyways.

Now, we know better than to even try a fucked up "family experiment" phase.

Obviously all the other socio economic factors are important too, but I think the margins for that have been expanding at the same rate for decades now. Meanwhile, the new increasing dataset are those who could afford kids but literally don't care to deal with it.

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u/gentlesandwich — 17 hours ago

Owning a shy cat is like inviting a ghost into your home.

My cat is shy he doesn't like company, and he's really good at hiding. Sometimes, I have to convince people who visit he exists (esp. My nieces and nephew, who have never seen him person). I have pictures of him.

I have to explain how he's got a dish and I feed him everyday. The food and water aren't just evaporating. He just doesn't like guests. Lol.

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u/PearlHarbor_420 — 21 hours ago

Employers - your employees are smuggling tampons/ pads to the toilet when they're on their period, you need to do better.

Women shouldn't need to worry about how they're going to carry their sanitary products to the toilet without it being obvious - especially taking into account that women's clothing tends to have way fewer pockets than men's.

They also shouldn't need to scramble to find sanitary products if their period comes early, or if they forget to bring products with them.

Imagine if toilet paper was not provided in toilets, and if every time you went for a shit, you needed to carry your own paper to the toilet with you.

Edit: I really didn't expect this to be such a contentious issue.

To clarify, obviously women shouldn't feel ashamed of having a periods and there shouldn't be any stigma. But the fact remains that some may feel undignified needing to whip out a sanitary product at their desk or in meeting.

I know that a lot of men in offices would feel a similar way if every time they went for a shit, they needed to carry their toilet paper wuth them in their hand, and you can't convince me otherwise. Imagine being in an important meeting, realising that you unexpectedly need to evacuate your bowels and excusing yourself. Now imagine if the bathroom had no toilet paper, so you had to carry out a roll of toilet paper with you. Or try to find some if you forgot yours.

And obviously you could take a small bag to work with those things in - of course. But the fact remains that you could still be caught out but forgetting it or just not having it with you at every moment of the day. Having products in the bathroom would solve the issue.

I stand by what I said. Sanitary products should be available in all workplace bathrooms.

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u/Nicki3000 — 1 day ago

The dating scene is changing…

If you think that finding a significant other is difficult today, just wait until humanoid robots hit the market for the general population. These things won’t need to sleep, use the toilet, or have any problems doing dishes, and handling food preparation. They’ll be more knowledgeable than any human could ever be, and incredibly intuitive to your every need because they have vast amounts of data gathered from numerous data broker sets.

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u/BeefGuese — 1 day ago

i honestly don't base attraction based off physicality

I'm not trying to sound shallow or anything, but it seems like having any sort of attraction to anyone has lost its means for me. I don't know if its because of the field i'm in i'm seeing things in a different light. Idk. Probably asexual, i couldn't tell you. But, to be physically attracted to someone, isn't me.

Idkkkk.

Thanks for reading stranger lol.

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u/notinmyham — 18 hours ago

A part vs apart annoys me for absolutely no reason

So we have apart and a part.

A part means something is together or connected in some way and is 2 SEPARATE words. Yet, apart means something is NOT together or connected in some way but it's only 1 word.

I don't like this and I have absolutely zero basis or reasoning for why it bothers me.

That is all.

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u/Anaphylactic_Cock — 22 hours ago

Today I learned that a car doesn’t need to be completely wrecked to be “totaled”

tl;dr, I got into my first car accident last week, I was at fault, I opened a claim with my insurance, my car was still functional aside from a busted driver’s side blinker. I was still able to drive my car to and from work and anywhere else with little issue, so I thought that surely it can be fixed.

After going to the collision repair shop for an estimate, I was equally surprised and not surprised at how much the repair estimate was, and then today I got a call from my insurance company saying that the car was deemed a total loss.

Now that I know what “totaled” really means, I’m not really surprised. It’s a 10-year-old Ford and it has almost 190,000 miles on it, but still. Besides the blinker, the car works. It may not have much time left anyways, but it *works.*

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