u/justkeepbreathinon

You can’t tell me they actually think their stopping substances coming in

This guy from my university (both of us 20) and I text on instagram a bit about random things and last week he brought up that he wants some sort of situationship with me with no labels, according to him he wants bonding and shit but he also wants the physical part of a relationship without actually dating. Now initially I said no because it sounded more like a hookup than anything and he kept pressing and calling me until I heard his pov (still sounded very much like a hooking up or a friends with benefits situation even tho he insists it’s not)
Thinking about it I thought why not cause we’re both single and everything but I also told him I always thought my first time would be with a boyfriend in the moment and all and he said if I still want a relationship in a few months he’ll look into it but he made it clear he wants sex from me before that.
I was going to potentially meet up with this guy a few times just for the plot but my instincts keep telling me not too, I feel like even if I don’t regret anything in the moment I will regret it later but I also mainly agreed because I felt like a lot of university students even younger than me have done a lot and I also wanted to but I don’t want to do something feeling like I shouldn’t or with the wrong person
Idk how to tell him exactly he wants to like pick me up from work in 2 days and he has this whole image in his mind of us making out and me giving him head apparently but I want to tell him that I thought about it and I can’t go through with it because at the end of the day I would feel used and regret

UPDATE: I told him and he basically said I was overthinking but did ultimately say okay and that he hoped I was fine

UPDATE 2: nvm he’s arguing with me and said “Ok lets not have sex for few days or months until u feel like having it” 💀

Could any senior preferably in cse or ai that had electives please dm me? Need to ask some questions to clear my doubts

I’m trying to manifest good grades (ie lenient paper correction, good relative grading etc) but idk how because they all are possibilities that could happen but everything in me is telling me it won’t how do I do this

Even when trying to manifest something small or with the simplest techniques how do I let go of that small voice that tells me that this won’t work out or I’m wasting my time?