why does a man being vulnerable in front of a woman gives some women the "ick"?

some women want men to be vulnerable but once they do, they got turned off and break up with their boyfriends or think less of him as a man. some women even weaponize it and use it against these men

its like some women want men to be vulnerable but not too vulnerable

while other women say they would comfort them, cry with them or even hug them... and that makes their relationship stronger

which is actually true? or this depends on the person?

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u/katris_priordeen — 9 days ago

whats the most polite way to ask someone (especially if you'll be having sex with this person) if they have hiv/aids/std?

do you think its offensive to ask this or its vital?

has someone asked you if youre carrying diseases? how did you respond?

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u/katris_priordeen — 2 months ago
▲ 205 r/AskWomen

what kind of compliments do you dont like hearing/getting?

even if its positive because you think maybe because its not true or genuine or you just feel weird about it?

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u/katris_priordeen — 3 months ago