femboys' failed date
Yesterday I had the weirdest and worst date of my life. It all started when I let a femboy acquaintance of mine know that I was visiting his city. He responded super enthusiastically, which made me really happy. He initially suggested we just kiss and cuddle, which would have been completely fine by me, but then he kept escalating and hinting at doing something more serious. I didn't want to reject him, so we agreed on a specific time.
The next day, I took the subway to his district. By the way, it was my first time in that area, and honestly, my first time navigating the subway completely on my own without relatives. I ended up being slightly late because of anxiety, but nothing critical. When I arrived, I bought him a corn dog because he mentioned he was a bit hungry, and I wanted to be nice and take care of him.
We walked around for a bit, and he took me to a spot near his old place because, according to him, there wouldn't be many people around. Once we got there, I started hinting at going inside a building entrance to finally get that kiss. Suddenly, his entire demeanor shifted, and he completely changed his mind. He said something like, "Dude, honestly, I flip-flop on how I feel about guys and femboys all the time, and I feel like I'd have a total mental breakdown if we even hold hands."
Mind you, we both look great; it wasn't about appearance, how long we've known each other, or anything like that. Everything would have been fine if he had just told me this before I traveled all the way across a huge, unfamiliar city completely alone. His excuse was that he just got caught up in the moment earlier due to "post-nut clarity" (he wanted that kind of intimacy right after masturbating, then changed his mind). Again, I wouldn't even have a problem with that if he hadn't waited until I was already on my way. He had plenty of time to rethink his decision, but he chose to tell me only after I had already arrived.
When I got home, I confronted him and laid it all out. He only sent three dry messages saying he regretted not kissing me, but completely ignored the fact that he should have warned me beforehand.