This guy just threw salad dressing at my door
Some context: Like last year this guy's young daughter slammed her car door against my moms car door... Instead of pressing anything serious against him, my mom kindly offered to buy car paint which she would apply herself. This would be under the condition he paid a small sum of money for it. She went to his door to ask for it, and he slammed it on her face... Ever since this moment he has lost 3 court battles to me/my mom.
He is an exmilitary "pre-law student" at a nearby city college, as well as divorced father who gets his children on the weekend.
He really wants a protection order against us because he SINCERELY believes we are stalking him. Every single fucking time. Every single time he brings this up to the HOA or the superior court they laugh it off. He brings in the same random pictures of nature, like his lawn, and it'll just be an empty picture with nothing there. He just cannot adequately elaborate on it's significance. There are several more pieces of recurring "evidence" just like this which he loves to submit. Pictures of his porch, pictures of my mom walking outside.
Its genuinely rtarded😭 Today he threw salad dressing at our door/doorstep after leaving us alone for the duration of his week long relationship. Like...ok??? Before we had our cameras he threw eggs and like bearnaise sauce or something too lmfao
He genuinely really enjoys coming to our home and just doing bullshit. This has happened to both me and my mom on several occasions... We will look out the window and he is already just standing there. Looking inside.
The issue with recording this is that our window cameras are "armed" so they record a clip when there's movement next to it, but he stands at a distance that it doesn't clip at
Like what does one do about this? Is there literally anything? He's just kind of an idiot. We genuinely do not speak or interact with him in any capacity whatsoever, nor do we think of him when it is unnecessary. My mother was on the HOA board for a while but quit due to the complacency of other members. The HOA does not care as long as his lease is funded (43 year old man, its funded by his mom.)
Okay i just really needed to complain thanks lol
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***UPDATE***
We called the police once more this afternoon, another report was filed. However due to the fact we live in a sort of condominium, connected-housing complex with a courtyard, there are many positions he can get to our doorway without actually "trespassing" unfortunately. I suppose this would've been useful to mention at first but I didn't believe I'd get any replies to this 😭
As of now (8/16 4:46pm PST) the cop is waiting outside for him to come home so he can talk to him. This would not be the first time they have briefly camped here while handling him... We were told that he had even called 911 before just to ask why the police were at our house (bro is scared of consequences lol). The cop cant formally arrest him here and now due to the fact that is we're on private property and that its "HOA jurisdiction."
Yes we have went up the HOA chain of command about these things. No they do not care. I'm mainly just trying to prepare for university, but my mom suggests that after I'm gone she is taking him back to court(hopefully appeals next). Thank you guys for your support 🤩🤩
TLDR:: exmil paranoid neighbor gets mad at owing my mother money for damaged car paint, harasses us, throws salad dressing, he also hates women and likes to peek into our windows. Poor camera internal programming and private property status as well as HOA 🔄️ Court 🔄️ Police loophole keep letting no one win.