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When “you know you know”, does the other person “know” too?

Like is it a mutual thing? Or could one person feel it and not the other? Or does the fact that "when you know you know," mean that they're your person and so they also must feel the same?

Sorry if this didn't make sense, I'm pretty high right now lol and thinking about my boyfriend who I think is my "one" and I kinda think he thinks the same, but it just got me pondering this thought.

Thanks Xo

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u/kindalizard — 2 days ago

Hadestown vs Maybe Happy Ending?

I have the opportunity to see one of these shows at a theater outside of New York. I‘ve done some research and it sounds like they’re pretty different shows lol but both amazing. Both are highly suggested, but I’m wondering if anyone can compare these two to other shows, movies, productions to help me decide.
Looking for recs like:
“If you liked ____, you should see Hadestown.”
“If you liked ____, you should see MHE.”

Thanks in advance!

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u/kindalizard — 18 days ago

Hadestown vs Maybe Happy Ending?

I have the opportunity to see one of these shows at a theater outside of New York. I‘ve done some research and it sounds like they’re pretty different shows lol but both amazing. Both are highly suggested, but I’m wondering if anyone can compare these two to other shows, movies, productions to help me decide.
Looking for recs like:
“If you liked ____, you should see Hadestown.”
“If you liked ____, you should see MHE.”

Thanks in advance!

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u/kindalizard — 18 days ago

Wave of relief

First I was hit in my chest
The stomach drop
The anxiety I feel when I see your name
I click on the black and white picture of you
You know I think your hands are hot
Unsure of what you would say
Would I be met with defense?
Spun back on me like a top?
But with a quick glance
Like frothy white crescents splashing the sand
A wave came over me
The weight on my chest lifted
You didn’t defend
You didn’t spin me around
I realized how not used to this type of response I am
How heard I felt
That he cares
That he still sends the winking kissy emoji
That I trust we will talk about it
And I’ll feel heard there too
I hope I can be calm
I want to be calm
I want him to be my best friend
And how would I treat a best friend?
She says I found a real man
Someone who can take accountability
Someone who has emotional intelligence
Someone who respects me and does the things they say
Thank you for being kind
For being thoughtful
For giving me what I’ve been looking for all this time
I was losing hope but there you were
Here you are
I love you.

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u/kindalizard — 2 months ago

Wave of relief

First I was hit in my chest
The stomach drop
The anxiety I feel when I see your name
I click on the black and white picture of you
You know I think your hands are hot
Unsure of what you would say
Would I be met with defense?
Spun back on me like a top?
But with a quick glance
Like frothy white crescents splashing the sand
A wave came over me
The weight on my chest lifted
You didn’t defend
You didn’t spin me around
I realized how not used to this type of response I am
How heard I felt
That he cares
That he still sends the winking kissy emoji
That I trust we will talk about it
And I’ll feel heard there too
I hope I can be calm
I want to be calm
I want him to be my best friend
And how would I treat a best friend?
She says I found a real man
Someone who can take accountability
Someone who has emotional intelligence
Someone who respects me and does the things they say
Thank you for being kind
For being thoughtful
For giving me what I’ve been looking for all this time
I was losing hope but there you were
Here you are
I love you.

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u/kindalizard — 2 months ago