Im at the airport for the first flight. Do I need to pick up my luggage when I get to Sydney? Got them all on one ticket and there all say oneworld. Does my luggage go straight to Brisbane or do I need to pick it up at Sydney? First 2 flights are American Airlines and the last is quantas
LDR Me 22M, Her 21F. Been together for about 2.5 years
This was a text message my girlfriend sent me after I was telling her what I do when I get home from work. I was telling her that I’ve been noticing that I sit in my truck for an extra 10 to 20 mins and told her my thoughts on why. Because drained from the day or that something might be on my mind or weighing me down and gotta just chill before I go inside or just let something out after a long day. I get up really early for work. My shift is 5:30-2 and it’s all manual labor work. Furniture assembly and stuff like that so I’m physically exhausted as well after work.
Then she gave me a run down of what I can do so I’m not feeling that way and not staying in my truck and yes I’m thankful for that. Then I read something wrong. She said “I am the person you want your future with” and I read that as she wants me to be her person and have a future with me or something like that. My brain wasn’t working at that time ngl but I still let her know and asked if it would be okay if she could send more things like that because it made me feel good.
But that’s pretty much everything before so this is what she said after that.
The more you dont listen to me, ignore me, not notice me, the more and more it is going to linger because you are not resolving these issues.
Then, because of that, I am not feeling okay so why would I compliment you or say good things? When you made me not feel good at all?
How you treat me determines/alters/etc how I treat you and vice versa.
I love my girlfriend so much but I feel off about things and I have brought things up in a respectful manner but it doesn’t seem to sink in. We’ve been together for about 2.5 years. I know and understand that I’m in the wrong as well with her like not listening fully and I apologize for everything and try and make it up to her but I feel like I make it worse and then she’s all good the next day and I’m still in my head about it.
I’ll give an example. This was last night for me, morning for her.
We were talking and then out of the blue she called me a piece of shit and I was wondering where that came from. She didn’t get much sleep and I wasn’t trying to push her buttons if I was. And I was trying to ask her why’d you say that because I didn’t do anything for her to say that so it just left me kinda confused and she ended up talking to me about her past and said that she’s been called worse and all this and all that. Talked about that for at least a half hour about how I shouldn’t have taken it the way that I have and said that there’s worse things to worry about right now. I wasn’t just trying to voice some discomfort and it seems like she’s trying to justify the whole situation. Then I did raise my voice a little because she was getting that way and I was just wanting to be understood in that moment and it seemed like she was avoiding it and it hurt. She also compared me to how her friends may react if she said that to them for no reason in a “joking” way and I guess they would be fine with it and brush it off.
Idk if I could take it a different way next time. I’m not sure if my thought process is wrong or that I could not be bothered but my partner saying that to me.