u/knicoleb90

While working on Sunday my CSM told me a story about how I can basically be wrote up for emptying and changing overfilled and overflowing on the floor trash cans.

She said and I qoute, “They’ll file a grievance because you’re taking the cleaning people’s job away.” She also says I do things too fast as well and need to chill out.

For the record, I’m not going to stand in and on legit garbage for 6+ hours and wouldn’t you want your store clean?

Like I have never been shamed at a job in all my years for keeping a clean space when that is actually in the descriptions of my job.

Last year a random Texas guy added me on Facebook, I didn’t think much of it until he started liking everything on my page. I was brave and sent a message first.

Now I talk to him every day throughout the whole day either messaging or phone calls and I will admit I do like him.

He really seems to like me and would love for me to visit. He does seem genuine and like he’s a respectful and decent person.

Where I am perplexed however is I’m a plus sized girl and that in itself lies a bucket of issues with dating which he seems fine with that I’m plus size.

I’m also a domestic abuse survivor. I’m 35 and being honest I’ve only dated my ex as well as only been with the ex sexually and after I got away from that I was in no state to date.

I tried in my later twenties and gave up after a few dates so I’ve spent the last 10 years celibate and single.

Any advice or feedback is loved.