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Image 1 — i don't know how to make him look more like a monkey
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i don't know how to make him look more like a monkey

Hey! I decided to redesign my fursona so it reflects me better (and, well, I just liked the idea). I wanted to cross a podengo and a capuchin (dog and monkey), but I have a feeling it just looks like a regular dog with a white muzzle

I know the differences will be noticeable in the tail and paws (more on the monkey side), but I still think there are too many dog traits here. Of course, the white part of the muzzle will be hairless, like a capuchin's, but also a bit longer

Anyway, I need some advice on how to portray this much better :)

u/koerdog_png — 12 days ago
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am i asexual, frigid, or traumatized?

As stated in the title, I'm wondering if I'm asexual. I haven't had much experience accepting my orientation, since I've always been attracted to men and I've been a transsexual man for about 10 years now. I'm pretty young (18) and a virgin, so I can assume it's all connected to the fact that I'm transsexual and can't stand seeing my naked body, let alone imagining myself in an intimate setting.

First off, I want to say that I've never had any abusive or grooming experiences in my life, so I can rule out the option of avoiding sex due to trauma.

I do allow myself to masturbate, without getting any real pleasure from it (to put it simply, I do it out of boredom and don't even finish). Before, during puberty, I fantasized a lot about sex with my characters, and that's where it ended, but it never involved my own body. I didn't seek out sexual contact, even though men sent me intimate photos. I didn't get aroused, because most of the time it just made me cringe or gave me aesthetic pleasure.

So, coming back to the beginning, I still don't understand whether I'm actually asexual or just a virgin who's afraid of finding a partner and having sex because of dysphoria? I don't really like putting labels on myself, but I want to understand myself better, because it's been bothering me a bit.

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u/koerdog_png — 1 month ago