There’s not enough hate for Papa Archeron
There probably is, but proportionally he doesn’t seem to be getting hated on as much as Nesta and Elain for his (lack of) contributions in the cabin.
Nesta and Elain get hated on for letting Feyre hunt and risk her life.
Nesta, in spite of doing all sorts of redeeming things after that, still gets hated for not helping Feyre and being rude. Never mind that as early as in the first book, she went looking for her at the wall/fae lands, even though it was known that it’s dangerous there.
Elain’s biggest crime is that she wasn’t doing industrial level farming. How dare she only plants the flower seeds Feyre got her as a gift, instead of yards of potatoes?
For me, the person who should be getting the most hate in this scenario is Papa Archeron. This so called “Prince of Merchants”, couldn’t find a single way of making money to help his family survive? All he did was mope around at home, making wooden figurines, while his teenage daughters had to take on all the burden.
Sure, Feyre was hunting, but we also find out that Nesta wrote to all their family and friends when they first fell from grace, which I imagine was very psychologically taxing for a teenage girl. As for Elain, it sounds like she always had to manage the emotions of everyone around the house and be the peacekeeper.
All it took was a generous financial boost from Tamlin, and suddenly he’s super rich and able to get a whole armada. We’re meant to think he managed all that from hustling with Tamlin’s money, but frankly with how incompetent this man was, he had probably burned through most of it buying houses and ships. Plus, how come none of the sisters seem to get any inheritance from him? Maybe that’s why Feyre is so concerned about Nesta drinking their money away, she now has to pay off all of her father’s new debt! Maybe in the next books we find out that Papa Archeron owes Koschei a bunch of money and his collectors are banging at their doors 🤷🏻♀️
For me, Papa Archeron needs to be hated the most in the cabin scenario. I completely understand disliking Nesta being rude back then. I can understand viewing Elain as though she was sitting back and letting others take care of her. However, out of all 4 people in that cabin, Papa Archeron was the only one with supposedly the real life skills to support a family financially.
And before people come and say “he had no money or other resources to use for hustling”, doesn’t Elain also get a ton of hate for not farming vegetables, when she would also need to get those seeds from somewhere?
At the end of the day, I do think that all that is due to poor world building and SJM’s lack of understanding of how poverty works. But still, it annoys me that after so many books, Nesta especially still gets so much hate regarding the cabin and letting Feyre hunt. When in the books it’s explicitly mentioned that she did try learning to hunt, but she couldn’t do it.
I’m also reading Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik now, where there is a similarly “incompetent” father, and seeing how he’s handled there just makes me extra annoyed both by Papa Archeron’s incompetence in the book, but also how he was written.