u/labubushwick

how often do you guys have a crush on someone? not just thinking someone's cute but actually yearning for someone. i haven't had a crush on a girl in like 2 years. i've gone out on dates and thought girls were cute but the yearning + fantasizing component of crushes that makes them so lovely has been missing for a bit. wondering if it's just a me thing or if others experience this too. maybe it's just because i'm older now, even though i really don't want to have outgrown the "having crushes" part of my life, if it is indeed a stage.

tired of straight love stories, want to hear some lesbian meet cutes 💞

Looking for obnoxious but tasteful lesbian wall art that will make straight friends visiting my apartment raise an eyebrow and think to themselves "wait, is she gay?" Straight women and gay men seem to have monopolized cheeky art that celebrates the female and male form respectively. Straight women have their female torso candles and their boobie art. I saw a gay man with a sweater custom embroidered with two dudes jerking each other off. Lesbians could never. I have a hat I got from a lesbian bar that I used to come out to some of my friends who were being too straight but I am looking for more subtle. Like yes I could wear a millennial-coded "WNBGay" hat but I am looking for more artful. My walls are bare and waiting to be decorated. Thank you for your recommendations.