u/lapetitepoupee

Hey, everybody! I [24F] have a horror-focused Discord server made exclusively for women and non-binary folks. The majority of us play DBD and we're always playing together. If you'd be interested, please comment down below and I'll send you the link. <33

Hey, giiiiirls! As the title says, I've decided to create a Discord server for both non-binary and women only so we can all have a safe space far away from creeps.

Although it's a horror-focused server, all games are welcome as we play a bit of everything!

If you're interested, please comment down below and I'll send you the link <33

Edit: Omgg. I’m so happy lots of you want to join. If it takes me a while to get back to you, worry not! I will do so as soon as I am available (: my server has no limit, so you don’t have to worry about that. The more the merrier!

Edit #2: I didn’t mention trans women because… I consider them women??? Either way, we’re LGBTQ+ friendly. Join us!!!

Long-story-short: I want to main Sadako, but omg… the headache.

I love her. I love her concept, I learnt how to play her and build condemn stacks, but I guess I’m just not feeling it with her?

I love her. I love Ghostface as well, but… sighs. Do you get my point?

How did you choose who to main? And if you main either Sadako or Ghostface, any word of advice?

I genuinely feel quite overwhelmed by large maps cos it feels awfully difficult to monitor gens, especially on maps with some crazy corners going on. At least they feel large to me.

Sometimes it’s ok when I play with killers who TP, but overall I get a little lost because it’s like if I commit to chases (sometimes not even a long ones) I’m easily screwed.

So my question is: do you have a strategy? A friend told me she camps the 3 gens that are closer to each other and let them pop the other ones, cos at some point they’ll have to go do one of those 3, but I haven’t tried that yet.

Edit: thank you, everyone! I’ll keep these tips in mind.

I’ve seen some people here who are looking for new hobbies whereas I feel like I have way too many.

I like gaming and I do it a lot. I also do my best to journal and read consistently and do yoga for movement.

HOWEVER, I also like colouring, drawing, writing stories, learning a new language, developing something fun during my free time (I’m a dev), crocheting (started crocheting a rug and I still haven’t finished it), word search books…

I think it’s nice to have multiple hobbies, in a way I’m almost never bored but also I never know which one to pick and this has given me so much anxiety lately.

If you have multiple hobbies and are reading this, how do you choose? How do you juggle them? I’d love some advice.

League of Legends, Dead by Daylight… am I forgetting something? Hell, even Stardew Valley’s can be like that, for heaven’s sake.

This subreddit is the closest to a safe space I’ve known here on Reddit. I’m so tired of posting about things I care about so I can share with like-minded people and the toxic ones end up standing out more.

I’m just a girl who wants to talk about her favourite games. Some communities do make me feel like playing nothing, socialising with no one and leave said communities. Goodness gracious!

I’m interested and hesitant at the same time. It seems to be intense in a way I’m not sure I’d enjoy, but I’d like to test the waters and see how I feel.

I also have no idea what to play first. I heard Bloodborne is a good game to start, but also that it could be confusing and feel like too much playing by myself instead of in group at first. Which leaves me wondering… do I want to play a game like this? IDK.

Anyway. Tips? Tricks? What’s your take?

I play on PS5 (Plus & Extra available), so any games available there would be amazing!

Edit: I might not be able to reply to every comment, but I want to thank everyone beforehand. <33

I was looking for some people to play Dead by Daylight with and I found this guy who was really nice. We played with no comms at first, which I was glad because I can be shy.

After about one hour playing, we added each other on Discord and kept on playing. Then there was this moment where I said something and he couldn’t understand, then he said “Could you repeat that, baby girl?”

I said, “What did you just say?”

Then he said, “Sorry, honey. Oh, I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have said that.”

And then I said, “People say that when they’re being flirtatious.”

And he said, “Yeah. Sorry… I didn’t mean to make it weird.”

I said it was OK, apology accepted, but man… I couldn’t feel safe and comfortable after that. I’ve had some shitty experiences meeting people online and I got some serious trust issues regarding this.

I understand he apologised and stuff, but it’s like the little trust I started building suddenly shattered.

I’m sick of men being creeps.

I’m excited about the 2v8 game mode and really wanted to find some good company to play it with. Anyone?