u/leathermouthfan

So I adopted this dog like five days ago his owner passed away and his family needed someone to take him and I did!
So far he’s been fine but now he’s starting to whine a lot and tries to hump me and other people as if he’s frustrated and is being picky about when to eat or not so now I’m getting worried there’s obviously something that’s bothering him and I’m not sure what but I’m assuming it’s maybe cause he’s confused about being displaced and having a different routine maybe??? He’s also 12 years old and un neutered and the family told me he’s never seen him try to hump before so I’m not sure what to do should I be worried??

Hiiiii I have two tickets for sell for the strokes in Philly on June 26,2026! Pls lemme know if you’re interested <3 I really need to sell them and I don’t wanna resell on Ticketmaster lmao

I was in a “situationship” with my ex for over a year.. yeah I know It sounds bad 💀 we dated for three years and I broke up with him in 2020 I think or 2021 cause he kept lying to me and hiding things on his phone constantly so I got tired of it eventually and left him but I really did love him and then he came back to my life summer of 2024 and he initiated hanging out, brought up feelings he has for me, we were seeing each other a lot and hooking up, texting everyday, etc and after maybe a month or less I asked “what are we?” And he basically told me he didn’t want anything serious cause he isn’t ready and I was so upset cause I felt lead on and played and that was a first for me especially coming from someone I have so much history with so it def hurt bUttttt my dumbass kept seeing him and we started to go out to places like clubs and concerts together and it was always so intimate my feelings kept getting stronger but frustrated cause he didn’t wanna commit to me but I was so in love with him especially cause i believed almost everything he said about how he feels towards me like “I wanna marry you, you’re the love of my life, I’m never gonna love anyone as much as I love you, It just feels right with you, etc” I truly believed he loved me and he was the one for me and maybe if I waited more and more he’ll eventually commit to me but he never did he just always kept saying that he wasn’t ready for a relationship and felt like he needed to work on himself and was struggling mentally and deep self hatred but doesn’t wanna lose me forever cause it’ll be his biggest regret.. but then in October of 2025 I noticed that he was seeing somebody else behind my back (from online stalking) and when I texted him about it he ignored me for almost two days but I kept spamming him cause i was freaking out realizing that he was actually seeing someone else and I couldn’t believe it :/ he eventually responded and we met up and omg even then he still didn’t say the truth kept denying everything or saying “idk” to everything I was asking but he said that “him and I don’t work out and that we see things differently and I get mad at everything he does” and I couldn’t believe what he was saying cause the switch up was crazy to me he went from “I love you so much you’re meant for me” to “we don’t work out I don’t feel comfortable with you”… nothing was making sense to me and I was so in shock that he betrayed me the way he did and he was hiding it from me for three or two months and it’s crazy how FASTTT he moved on to the girl he was seeing :/ especially when he chose to spend $400 to go see my fave band with me in august cause he said it was gonna be special and wanna experience seeing them with me to then seeing another girl in September only a month later maybe even less..he didn’t wanna tell me when he started seeing her or anything or whether he even had feelings for her or if they were official or not he lied to the very end of everything it was insane to me but I continued to stalk afterwards and saw he was hanging out with her in her room so it was very obvious they were already dating for maybe a month or two and I didn’t know but I did question him about it before I found out cause of my intuition and he was acting weird and stopped saying that he loved me so I def knew something was up but never thought he would actually do that to me especially leading me on for over a year to then committing to a girl less than a month of them talking.. I was so in distraught probably worst pain I’ve felt for my 23 years being alive tbh lmao I know it sounds dramatic but it’s true and after the useless “talk” I messaged the girl basically saying he’s a liar and manipulator and he’s been talking to me for this long while seeing you as well and she just blocked me lmao so ig she didn’t care or believed whatever he told her about me :/ but then she unblocked me less than a week and has blocked me twice more and then unblocked me?? Idk but anyways it’s now been 7 months ever since that happened and I still can’t get over it and I hate it so much it’s always on my mind and I want it gone cause I never feel truly happy or at peace since I’m not really over the situation I guess and I even stopped stalking for months but its still in the back of my mind and I feel like it’s eating me up I’ve been tryna distract myself but maybe it isn’t good enough and truly feel I’ll never be in a relationship again but I mainly want this pain to go away cause I was so in love with him and it hurts to know he’s in a official relationship with someone else (also so sorry for typing so much I feel like the backstory is needed or something)