u/lesbiankatmom

Bra recs for a small chested diva who owns 1 bra and cannot find anything in store that works(US)

I rarely wear low neckline tops or dresses because of my lack of boob issue. My fiance is having a Ball for her AIT military training graduation in December and I want to wear a dress with a lower neckline. I usually dont care about my chest but it sucks when I get a dress/shirt and it doesn't look flattering due to the cut of the chest area.

The last time I wore a bra with a cup/band size was 4 years ago and that was a 32A. The bra I got 4 years ago and wear now currently is an XS Auden non-wired bra. I don't even think they produce them anymore 🫪.

Any time i go to the bra section in stores I just cannot find anything that fits me. It fits my body but never my boobs if that makes sense. Even when I wore actual bras (32/34A) there would always be gapping and space in the cups so I gave up. I used the calculator and got these measurements Measured in INCHES

Under bust

Loose: 26

Snug: 25.25

Tight: 24

Bust

Standing: 28

Leaning: 28.5

Laying: 28

Suggested starting size 26B/C

The loose is probably wrong, but anytime I would try to get it looser, it would just fall down.

I mainly just want to have them sit more full and mimic cleavage.

I would like a more affordable option because I don't have a wardrobe that would justify a high price point. The bra i wear now is my everyday bra and it fits me well with no gapping or loose parts.

A deal breaker for me is underwire due to sensory issues. I don't understand what a bra needs in order for it to give the desired look, but if I can't get the look I want without the wire then I am okay with the alternatives.

Lace is also not comfortable for me to wear as I am hyperaware of every design touching my body.

Any help would be appreciated 🙏🏾

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u/lesbiankatmom — 4 days ago

Should I be scared?

Filled up my 2012 focus, and the gas pump wouldn't stop. I got scared and checked the miles I had, and I somehow got 441 miles in my tank. The streets are saying the max you can get is 380-400mi. I was driving north from LA and didn't succumb to anything, so a win is a win. Will my car blow up soon lmk

u/lesbiankatmom — 3 months ago