u/liillyoo

Thoughts on the reaction to this post 🤔🤔

https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenagersBharat/s/sFcCCkvYRd

( this post is abt a women being worried to raise a boy child and another women telling her she would abort it in her position due to men most likely doing harm to women in their lives)

I feel like the general response to this post by the teenager Bharat community contains lots of misogyny and a tone death take on the post.

In a world where rape culture and the patriarchy dominate it is incredibly difficult to raise a boy child so they don’t add to the problem. It is possible but would require a lot of effort and even then if they fall into the wrong friend group at school or on the internet it can be hard to do anything abt it or reverse the damage.

I feel like refusing to birth males is an appropriate and understandable response to the MILLENIA of abuse we’ve suffered at due to men and the patriarchy. Yet these comments are calling these women or “creatures” disgusting for suggesting it despite the fact many societies have killed girl infants (not even aborted) simply because they were deamed unworthy despite women never being a threat to men’s rights or lives historically and presently.

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u/liillyoo — 1 day ago

What’s the best way I(F20) could talk to my Bf(21M) about our sex life?

My bf and i(F20) have been having sex for about a month now and even tho i like being intimate with him the sex is very penis centred and I’ve never orgasmed from it.

At first I didn’t mind this because he wasn’t orgasming either due to separate issues. However now those issues have been resolved and he orgasms everytime (sometimes multiple) I feel a bit left out.

He has touched me a few times before but never for more than a than a minute (and I asked him to majority of times). This is normally because I get uncomfortable and move his hand away or we get distracted.

I wouldn’t mind the fact I didn’t orgasm if I felt like he was focusing on me a little more but the sex just feels very penis based and it’s making me feel very frustrated at myself and like I’m a bad feminist for participating in this kind of man-centred sex.

If anyone has any experience with resolving similar sexual pleasure issues w their boyfriends I would love to hear how you approached the matter.

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u/liillyoo — 7 days ago