u/likeYuno

What do yall think about a partner saying that he would cancel on you the same day if they met up before with another partner/potential partner, and the date is still going?

Hello my bisexual fellows. First time posting here.

I (33F) just started a romantic relationship with, let's call her Cyan (35F, lebian). This is my first wlw relationship. I always only had relationship with men in the past, and I am finally exploring this side of me.

Well, I have found myself being very careful during sex. I feel I am holding back because I am scared that she might be uncomfortable, or that I dont want her to feel that way. I want to explore and do more, but I just don't know a lot. She says she is a pillow princess, which in my previous relationships with men I was the "pillow princess ",and the one that likes being dominated. Here, I enjoy being the dominant one, but I am just so fucking inexperienced, that I freak out, don't know what to do, I am way too careful, idk a lot comes to mind.

I have watched lesbian porn and whatnot, but I know porn is far from reality...

Idk what I am looking for with this post, I guess hear from people that might have a similar experience? How do I overcome me being in my head?

I have to say that it ia fairly new, and that we could do better with communicating our needs and wants for sure. I guess becoming the dominant was not something I contemplated before and I am having a hard time.