u/lilithdear

Image 1 — Everywhere I what to move, there’s “bad” lines on the DC
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Everywhere I what to move, there’s “bad” lines on the DC

For context, I am in a three year relationship, and my boyfriend and I are ready to move out and be on our own. However, every place that I feel drawn towards, it’s just bad planets for the DC and/or 7H….

My birth chart and 7H conditions are already a little risk taking, and my relationship can be a big rocky… I want to stay in the US but ugh…

Do you recommend staying somewhere with no lines? Idk what to do tbh :/

I’m feeling hopeless…

u/lilithdear — 3 days ago

Just finished SATC for the first time!!

My thoughts and opinions;

  1. Carrie isn’t THAT bad. In fact, I feel as though Carrie was the most human. Carrie was so well written as a person. Just a flawed human being, and I actually really liked that we saw a character like that.
  2. Charlotte isn’t that bad either. She was also essential to the group. A lot of people thought she was too stuck up, but she was optimistic in the worst times and she gave hope when no one else had any. Just a sweetheart at the end of the day.
  3. Yes, Samantha is worth the hype. I have no idea why, I didn’t think I’d like her at first. But the people were right. She’s the best!
  4. Aidan is an idiot, but such a good hearted man. He deserved better. I really liked him actually, despite what people say. But I do think he is way more like Carrie than people realize.
  5. I had such different opinions about Miranda! One min she was my fav, the next, I thought she had the WORST attitude 🤣
  6. Charlotte, imo, was the second best dressed and she doesn’t get enough recognition for her insane wardrobe and body 🔥.
  7. HATED Alex (the Russian guy). The scene at the dinner table when Samantha started talking about her Vibrator, thats when I knew FOR SURE he wasn't right for Carrie. Say what you want about Samantha, and being "poise" and "time and place", but the right guy for Carrie would've laughed or made a joke. Carrie's friends were everything to her. The right guy would've had to like Samantha or at least tolerate her. 😂 In fact, when that scene happened, all I could think about was that BIG would've differently made a funny comment and not make Carrie ashamed at her friends behavior. He would've laughed fs.
  8. Unpopular opinion: I didn’t care for Jerry Smith 🤣 he was sweet and cute but I thought they were mentally different. Edit: GUYS IM SORRY I LOVE SMITH!! I meant that I didn't care for him and Samantha together! I knew they weren't going to last :( I just feel as though Smith was so much younger than he came across and I felt like Samantha needed someone way more challenging and mature. However, Smith is an amazing guy and a sweetheart! And he treated Samantha the best! Long love Smith!

The movies:

  1. The first one was just so iconic.
  2. SUPER SUPER unpopular opinion: i UNDERSTAND big. Do I agree with him for running away? Hell nah. Would I forgive him? HELL no. But I do understand where he was coming from. In fact, in some ways, I agreed with him and his ideas of marriage and the whole situation with Carrie. But his scare of marriage was his fault in a way. And his fault that he didn't speak up to Carrie before hand. I’m glad how it worked out.
  3. Another unpopular opinion: comparing Miranda’s situation and Carries situation is what PMO the most. Everyone was so mad at Miranda for not forgiving Steve. I understood why Steve did what he did but Miranda didn’t have to forgive him and Carrie situation shouldn’t have been comparable to Miranda’s at all. Two totally different situations.
  4. No comment on the last movie 🤣

Overall, such a good fucking show. I also liked that the main characters were OLDER and not teens or young adults. My fav part. Women deserve to have a show that focuses around being an adult woman! The comedic timing was perfect, it was fun, relatable, just timeless. I actually think this has to be my favorite TV show ever. I usually HATE tv, and I have always skipped a few scenes or even episodes of every single TV show I have watched. Even top rated ones like game of thrones and stranger things. When I tell you guys, I didn’t pick up the remote ONCE when I turned it on. Just amazing. They timed the episodes perfectly, and just kept you on your toes. I’m definitely going to rewatch it again and again. That’s never happened before! I’m obsessed! I’ve been missing solid gold this whole time! My mom was the one who introduced me!

One last thing that bugged me the most about the whole series….
CARRIE’S SCREAMING PMO SO BAD. ITS A DAMN SQUIRREL

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u/lilithdear — 4 days ago

The products that are saving my hair…

For YEARS I have struggled with dryness. And I mean throughout middle school until now- which is 24 yo.
Just a couple hours after I washed my hair, just constant dryness, breaking off, just even touching it felt like horse hair, and no, that’s not an exaggeration. I just gave up on my hair. Didn’t care for it, treated it bad. Use to rip it out, pull it up everyday, or put it in two braids. I use to dye it as well. Just didn’t gaf about my hair at all unfortunately 😭

I also suffer from iron deficiency anemia, and kinda bad. I didn’t know this for years up until probably three years ago. So that can also contribute highly to my dryness and damage of my hair.

It wasn’t until I saw a TikTok video and a woman was talking about hydrating vs moisturizing. That you need a hydrating product and moisture to seal it.
I didn’t even know that was a thing. You’re probably like.. how? But as I said, I just completely gave up on my hair.
I need HYDRATING products. I need to put water in my hair of course.

So I got the L’Oréal hydrating mask, another L’Oréal hydrating shampoo

And then the Anne Rothshield moisture shampoo/conditioner.

I alternative between those!

Anyways, just about a month later, this has been the difference. It’s going to sound crazy and a miracle or not believe me, but it’s a huge ass difference for me.

Also, the LCO method instead of the LOC method made a huge huge difference! It also helps seal the moisture in well with the hydrating products I have

The first picture was probably just a day after washing my hair. , taken fresh out of a damn bonnet and in a pineapple. Just dry asf 😭

Today, the second picture, is day 3 hair!!!

I’m pretty sure any hydrating product would work, but so far, and in just a month, this is a super cheap alternative and I couldn’t be more happier..

I hope yall can see a difference in my hair! Cause I sure do!

P.S. my hair is still a work in progress after it being damaged for so long. Ik there is split ends, still a little frizzy, not perfect. I’m trying!!!

I put it in two braids (with a little oil) every night with a bonnet. I also loosely braid after I shower/wet my hair. My hair has grown a TON as well from this I feel like!

u/lilithdear — 8 days ago

If you don’t see “results” in photos, this may be why

I’ve been seeing some of these results on my fyp and some of them, it looks like there is ZERO change in the before photos. Even though the poster says they see major results irl and feel like they look better etc. (not including makeup vs no makeup or lighting change)
then I had I thought, maybe they are unintentionally (or intentionally) manifested revision.

For example: whenever someone sees old photos of themselves they may feel super ugly, but they end up getting fed up.

The affirmations like: “I’ve always been pretty”, “I’ve always looked like this” “ALL my photos show my desired face” etc… they are manifesting their old photos to show their desired face/new features as well.

Just a thought…. I think this is also a good idea for people who hate seeing past photos and have trouble believing certain affirmation. Just revise!

u/lilithdear — 12 days ago