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I'm watching season 6, episode 16. Miranda is frightened about moving to Brooklyn and Carrie compares it to something terrible like facing a terrible reality no one wants to talk about (like death). I'm not from the USA and I always wonder what's the big deal about Brooklyn, because they act like the place is a joke. I know they're Manhattan girls and all and they kind of despise other places but they're always joking about Brooklyn specifically and it makes me wonder...

Please feel free to write totally unhinged alternative storylines in the comments. Just for entertainment purposes.

I’m convinced this lady needs a dramatic ending in every relationship. She meets a guy she really likes and then finds one thing that he can’t give her/doesn’t want to give her but instead of ending the relationship then and there, she hyper fixates on this one thing (that she has not expressively said she’s ever wanted in the first place) and tries to probe him into giving her something that he can’t. Why not walk away before it gets too complicated and messy and save yourself the time and heartache? This is dating 101! I learned this lesson in my 20s. I don’t care how great a guy I’m seeing is, the moment I find out we want different things and are not willing to compromise, I end it. it’s really that simple and no one gets hurt because I respect what they want and I also respect what I want and don’t try to drag it out and make it theatrical. Even her friends know how to date intentionally. When she told Charlotte about the vasectomy, Charlotte told her to end it and if I remember correctly Samantha said something along the lines of end it or forget about having the baby. I just hate watching her torture herself. At 38 you’d think she’d run a tighter ship but I think her main issue was she always lacked intentionality in her dating life. And she’s obsessed with wanting what she can’t have. Big doesn’t want to be a relationship guy and settle down she now she must make him a relationship guy, Aidan wants to settle down and be relationship guy so now she wants to be free, Aleksandr doesn’t want a kid and though she has never mentioned the desire to have kids, now she wants to have kids. I love Carrie but man! It gets exhausting.

im re watching satc and i can’t believe how annoying steve is he such a bum annoying EVERYTHING hes so annoying omg i can’t believe they kept him as endgame just his face alone pisses me off lmao omg i have to mute him

do you think miranda and steve would have a better relationship without the baby?? just wondering if the problem was steve himself or was it because a baby involved in the relationship? i just feel like miranda would be better without a baby regardless of her partner. i am also probably saying this because i am not really a baby person. so i am kinda biased.

Ok, this might be deemed unrelated to "Sex and the City" and be removed. But I want to post it anyways.

I just want to say I love this sub, and how civilised everyone is when they talk to each other. I'm getting really fed up of people getting aggressive and rude online and have muted multiple TV show subs because of it. I don't know if I've somehow missed all the rude people on this sub, but it's been a breath of fresh air.

So thanks to everyone and also the mods.