u/little-human99

Hey guys, I’ve been going to grifols for the last month, twice a week, the whole shebang. Now the issue: the last 2 times I’ve scheduled an appointment in the app, which I’ve used every time, it’s given me the total I’ll make which is $120, but it changes the DAY OF to a lower rate. Do I bring this up to them? Ask them where my $120 pay is? Pretty sure it’s put me down to the lower normal donor rate now and I was really counting on that $120

Hello, I wanted to ask how you all cope with sensitivity while at work. Obviously, I have to do my job and work to get paid, but there are some days where just when someone is speaking at a normal volume it feels like they're yelling right into my ear. I have a coworker that I'm 90% sure either had ADHD or autism or even possibly both, he will randomly yell out quotes (he has the same 4 he cycles through and will repeat for like every 5min) or he will randomly burst into singing just because. Well today he started randomly singing that stupid tiptoe by the window song and SPECIFICALLY the very high pitched part (this song has always hurt my ears). The first time he did it I asked him to please stop because he was hurting my ears, about 10min later when my boss walks into the office he screeches that high pitched part even LOUDER than before. My boss asked what he was doing and he excitedly went "Singing!' well I snapped and said "yeah well you're hurting my hears and you need to shut up". (FYI our office dynamic is like siblings because it's an office of 7 only) I told him it was causing me physical pain hearing the high pitches and he essentially said "not my problem". I'm trying not to be mean about it, but it's seriously physically hurting me with the noise level and pitch

EDIT/INFO: I forgot to mention this in the initial post, but my roommate was responsible for the death of my senior cat. She had locked her in her room and left for the day, when I got home I told her I believed my cat was in her room since I was searching everywhere and couldn't find her, she told me "gas is too expensive" to come and open her door to check. My cat was locked in there for about 15 hours, and I ended up calling a locksmith to get her door open (it was a really hard situation since she had gotten very violent before). After I got my cat out of there she had stopped eating and drinking water. Two days later my cat passed away. And two days after that, she locked my other cat in her room and I flipped out on her for it.

So I'm 7 days from moving out, but let me tell you all about my roommate experience for the last year:

So a friend and I decided to get a place together, save money, yada yada. Well it was going good at first, though there were a few times she'd get bossy. Well at about 4 months in, my roommate had been making comments and having, in my opinion, funny reactions to who I was deciding to hookup with. Same person each time, not like it was multiple different guys. At that point I knew well she'd say a funny comment when I told her we'd hooked up and she did, but she flipped out on me cause I happened to get her response audibly in a video, not even showing her, just her verbiage being spoken. Well she flipped on me when she realized. Now you might think yeah I was in the wrong, but there had been MANY times before then that I happened to catch her saying something crazy and we'd LAUGHED about it each time. Anyways, she freaks out, starts telling me I need to leave and still pay for rent yada yada.

That one event blew it up to where we were no longer communicating. She started waiting till the last day of bills being due to send her half to me. There was another blow out because she took my batteries that were in a shared space and then flipped out when I took my batteries back. We then had 8 months of not talking to each other except for through email if we needed something like bill payments. She didn't ever care to split space evenly, she shoved my things to the side, even throwing away things of mine just "because". We made an agreement that we would switch cleaning the litter boxes every other day (we both had 2 cats each using them). When she went off me horribly at one point I didn't feel safe, so I put a doorknob on my door that could be locked (didn't have a lock on the original doorknob), but then I got home 3 days after installing it and she had shoved something in the lock while it was closed and destroyed my lock, I had to get maintenance to come break open the door so I could get in my room, and he confirmed for me that the lock was destroyed (she was also laughing from her room while I was struggling with the lock).

Fast forward to this last month, and her and her dealer boyfriend (who she gave a key to the place without ever asking me if I was ok with it), have been having huge arguments every single time he comes over so I get to hear them screaming and throwing shit at each other and then having makeup sex (yeah I get disgusted by them). The last week we started packing up our stuff to move, my roommate started filling up the living room with all her stuff spread throughout it, leaving no space for me to pack things up. I messaged her and asked if I could move her boxes to one side so I could have space to pack my belongings (we have one wall open in the living room to utilize that has nothing on it). Sure enough, she reads the message but she ignores me, so when she left for work I started moving her things to one side of the living room and then started packing up my things.

So she comes home from work and I can see on the ring camera she has a pissed off face and says "just couldn't keep from touching my shit" (she has this running narrative I'm obsessed with her, but I can't fucking stand her). She of course messages me and says her not responding was a "no" and I need to "not cause problems this close to the end of the lease". Because apparently utilizing the SHARED SPACE to pack up my belongings is causing "issues".

At the end of this, I can say never move in with a friend, all I've discovered is that they turn narcissistic, can be filthy (she never cleans, but I clean up after her), and do things on purpose to annoy you (taking a week to clean her dishes, never take out the trash, dropping food on the floors and not cleaning it up)