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I was in a 2.5-year relationship and we were planning to get engaged this year. I caught my boyfriend cheating on me three times. I forgave him the first two times, but after the last time finding out he was going to bars and meeting other girls i decided I can’t go back anymore.
Even though he is now begging, apologizing, and saying he has changed, I’ve made the decision not to return to him. The problem is, I’m really struggling emotionally and I feel like I’m losing control of myself. I feel like he has traumatized me.
I can’t eat properly, I can’t sleep, and I cry every night. I still love him, and I’m heartbroken, but I know I need to move on.
I just need advice on how to heal and move on faster, how to calm my mind, and how to start feeling okay again after something like this.

What helped you or what would you recommend in this situation?

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u/littlebunnyyyyy003 — 3 months ago

I really need help

I was in a 2.5-year relationship and we were planning to get engaged this year. I caught my boyfriend cheating on me three times. I forgave him the first two times, but after the last time finding out he was going to bars and meeting other girls i decided I can’t go back anymore.
Even though he is now begging, apologizing, and saying he has changed, I’ve made the decision not to return to him. The problem is, I’m really struggling emotionally and I feel like I’m losing control of myself. I feel like he has traumatized me.
I can’t eat properly, I can’t sleep, and I cry every night. I still love him, and I’m heartbroken, but I know I need to move on.
I just need advice on how to heal and move on faster, how to calm my mind, and how to start feeling okay again after something like this.

What helped you or what would you recommend in this situation?

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u/littlebunnyyyyy003 — 3 months ago

I really need advice

I was in a 2.5-year relationship and we were planning to get engaged this year. I caught my boyfriend cheating on me three times. I forgave him the first two times, but after the last time finding out he was going to bars and meeting other girls. I decided I can’t go back anymore.
Even tho he is now begging, apologizing, and saying he has changed, I’ve made the decision not to return to him. The problem is, I’m really struggling emotionally and I feel like I’m losing control of myself. I feel like he has traumatized me.
I can’t eat properly, I can’t sleep, and I cry every night. I still love him, and I’m heartbroken, but I know I need to move on.
I just need advice on how to heal and move on faster, how to calm my mind, and how to start feeling okay again after something like this.

What helped you or what would you recommend in this situation?

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u/littlebunnyyyyy003 — 3 months ago