How do I tell my mom I don't like my stepdad and don't want him making decisions about me?
My mom and my stepdad have been together for over 7 years. I am a 15 year old female and my biological father is dead. I am extremely grateful that my mom has found love but if i'm being completely honest I don't like him and never really have. I will never call him my dad, I don't see him as my father and he doesn't treat me like a daughter. He is maga, he doesn't believe in mental health, hes very argumentative, and super christian. He has anger issues and has thrown stuff before and yells over nothing. I've noticed recently he's changing my mom. he's a lot more controlling than her. She's always been laid back, content as long as we are safe and trying. My mom even says like he forced her in to marriage and talks a lot about how he does things she doesnt like. He yells at me for wearing clothes he doesnt like, and you could say thats normal but i have been overweight my whole life and have never once wore a crop top without a tank top underneath. i usually wear sweats and shirts but its 90 degrees out. i dont like shorts that show my stomach so im only comfortable in a few and he yells at me for wearing them. they arent short they cover all of my butt and have undershorts. Another thing is that i have pretty bad anxiety and aside from him not even thinking anxiety's a thing this affects my everyday life. I am tired of going to school and im more nervous than ever talking to people. I want to take one year of online school before going back and everytime i bring it up he screams saying he wont let me and that i have to finish school in person. He also has been getting mad at me for spending my own money that i earned from my job on hockey cards (which is one of the things that make me actually like life). I dont want him to be involved in decisions in my life at all. I understand this sounds mean but i dont see him as my father and would feel much better if only my mom was the one overseeing my life issues. How could i talk to my mother baout this or am just overreacting??