having visitors stay in accom rooms

im an incoming fresher at cambridge and was wondering about the rules around having visitors stay over. my bf and i are going to do long distance so when he visits, would he be able to stay over at mine? i was able to find online explicitly that it is ok with some colleges but nothing for mine (robinson). is this a general university-wide rule or do different colleges have different policies? thanks so much

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bed sizes for undergrad

this might be a stretch but i’m an offer holder for robinson and was wondering if anyone happened to know (or knew where i could find out) the bed sizes for the undergrad staircase bedrooms? thank you!! x

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u/loopsieloopsieloopsi — 27 days ago

ucas in results day

so in results day how likely is it for ucas to crash? i know everyone says it does but if it does how quickly does it un-crash? basically would it be better to open the email of results before trying ucas if it’s gonna tje ages

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u/loopsieloopsieloopsi — 1 month ago

success?

hey!! me and my bf (both 18) have been trying to have piv sex for a couple months and last week i was able to get his whole dick in me!!

since the first time, i’ve been able to get the tip in and slowly it would be more and more but never the whole thing. the only thing is it was still very painful for me and uncomfortable and i really want to enjoy sex with him. i have dilators but haven’t been the most consistent with them (i know i should be better) but i was wondering if anyone who’s in my position/has been in my position has any advice to move from fitting it to fitting it painlessly and pleasurably? thank you xx

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u/loopsieloopsieloopsi — 2 months ago

offering free personal statement advice for oxbridge!

hey! i just finished yr13 and have an offer to study theology religion and philosophy of religion at cambridge this year.

my school had a great teacher whose job was to help us lots with personal statement and interview prep but i know other schools don’t have this same level of support and was wondering if anyone wanted me to read over their personal statement if they don’t have anyone else to.

i did religious studies, history and sociology at a level so could maybe look at any humanities ps but would probably have the best advice for things related to my a levels.

if anyone has any other questions about anything around the process like stats, etc let me know!! finally have lots of time so happy to help :))

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u/loopsieloopsieloopsi — 2 months ago

advice with putting pressure on yourself?

hey! so i’m f18 and i’ve been with my boyfriend (m18) for a couple months now and we’ve been trying piv sex as well as fingering. i’ve been able to get one finger up with foreplay and the tip of his penis as well but it’s painful and sometimes emotional. he’s been so great and so supportive and has not been putting pressure on me or anything but i feel myself putting it on myself because i really want this to work and i don’t want him to think i’m too much to handle or deal with because obviously he didn’t sign up to deal with this. i’ve also started using dilators and the 2nd size has been much more painful than the first which is disappointing me. any advice to stop putting pressure on myself or any advice in general? ty xx

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u/loopsieloopsieloopsi — 3 months ago