Am i the only somalian who is very much against having kids because I see it as the most cruelest and selfish thing to bring a life to this world knowing they would experience hardship and there's much cons being alive than not? I don't know how a loving parent can do this... how do y'all justify being parents?
Hi Assalamu aleikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu. I've actually been thinking about this for a while and would love to hear peoples perspectives. For those who inshaallah plan on getting married and having kids potentially daughters do you ever think of like bringing a life to this world where we all know obviously it's misogynistic and patriarchal and also dawah bros. Also bringing a life to this world where she would be forced to wear hijab and all the struggles. Don't you think it's kind of evil? Why bring someone to this life knowing they'll experience struggle with hijab just like you and let's be honest no one enjoys wearing it and it's a journey. And if they happen to leave islam you've made them get punished hell eternity....