u/lovebug-07

Lc motivation pleaseee

I usually study the day before exams and get like 70%

i do ol irish and maths

I need around 460 pts which im rlly scared i wont get but since im not in the habit of studying early im finding it really hard helpp

also is studying with music okay? Thats how ive been doing it so far but tbh not sure how much im learning

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u/lovebug-07 — 1 day ago

men are interesting

told a guy about my sa from when i was under 10 years old and he immediately asks for nudes.

and unfortunately this is a reoccurring event.

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u/lovebug-07 — 3 days ago

My amma keeps copying me 💔

To preface, my mom was like my dad and my dad was my mom, ente papa veettil pani okke edukum, amma jolikk povum, nd honestly its not a bad thing, but certain times it really annoyed me. Ennik adhyam ayitt periods vannapo nte amma jolikk poyi (yes she knew, could have taken a day off) ennitt ente papa aahn ellam padipich thannath 😭 not only that but about good/bad touches etc. Again, Im not saying this is a bad thing, but as a young girl it would be more comfortable to learn this from your mother na? Since my mom was always at work njnglk angane oru good relationship illa, and whenever I try to talk to her she mostly gets annoyed.

Lately I pierced my nose!! (Big thing for me as I come from a pentecostal family) but then two weeks later my mom pierces her nose… okayyy… aykotte, chumma oru agraham ryt.. then njan ente papayodu paranju ennik braces idanam enn, appo thanne ente ammakkum idanam enn 💀 girl you are 52 years old ithre okke mathile…. And recently I started spending more time with her hoping to understand her, but everything we talk about HAS to be about her, she just seems very narcissistic to me at this point. Njan oru thamasha parayaan nokkiyal appo thanne ammakk dheshyam kerum

The first time she even called me a nickname was when my parents were fighting about my SA and she finally took my side, but for her own sake.

I know this seems a bit brattyish of me, but i cant take it anymore. Told my papa im going far away for college. I kind of saw his face drop and I felt reallyyy bad, but ee veettil ninnall ennik branth pidikum 🧍‍♂️

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u/lovebug-07 — 5 days ago

Question about racism in Derry

Hi guys! I’m an Indian girl living in cork, 18 years old, born and bought up here!

I recently got an offer in a college Derry for my dream course and I would like to go there since it’s the perfect setting for me. Overall I’ve heard that derry people are nice and welcoming, however I heard the younger people are quite mean there! (Especially towards people of colour) 😬

Is it just occasionally or is it really bad there? I just want to prep myself, I’ve got not contacts up north so just asking here :))

I had posted this in the Northern Ireland reddit page aswell, but someone redirected me here to get a bit more insight

Thanks in advance!

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u/lovebug-07 — 5 days ago

Question about racism in Derry

Hi guys! I’m an Indian girl living in cork, 18 years old, born and bought up here!

I recently got an offer in a college Derry for my dream course and I would like to go there since it’s the perfect setting for me. Overall I’ve heard that derry people are nice and welcoming, however I heard the younger people are quite mean there! (Especially towards people of colour) 😬

Is it just occasionally or is it really bad there? I just want to prep myself, I’ve got not contacts up north so just asking here :)

Thanks in advance!

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u/lovebug-07 — 5 days ago

2 weeks left…

its basically two weeks left im so scared to study
how the HELL do you study english im gonna flop and geography essays i need to start grinding im acc tweaking out how are u guys dealing with the stress????
I feel like my schedule is also so filled up lately with graduation and personal events soon should i just sit at home and grind away??? 😭😭😭

im aiming for 490 points what should i even be doing

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u/lovebug-07 — 6 days ago

Gifts for teachers

Is anyone giving gifts to teachers? I’m mostly thinking of getting chocolate and cards as a gift but for my biology geography and German teacher id like to give something more “them”

My budget is 50 euro (including chocolate, excluding cards)

Any ideas?

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u/lovebug-07 — 6 days ago

Pain :(

A couple months ago my wisdom teeth came out halfway, the pain only lasted like 4 days for each tooth. But now I think the rest is emerging out and this time its much worse, I can’t eat properly and even when I swallow my saliva it hurts - I have no knowledge on this kinda stuff so any advice?

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u/lovebug-07 — 9 days ago

Should I pursue some like this?

so hi guys im a teenage girl (18) who has never been in a relation before but i was talking to this guy who was actually really sweet and caring genuinely and i thought i may have wanted to pursue more than a friendship with him, he seemed really different than the others. I had asked him if he had any exes and he said he did have one, it affected him really badly and that if he thinks about it, it’ll drive him crazy thats all he said but later on when i asked him ab it he said he just said it as a joke. I had been fully transparent of any past crushes, but ive encountered people who have talked with him aswell and they all know of this said ex and it turns out he got cheated on but he never disclosed this to me or even mentioned it. should i continue to pursue this situationship or should i just leave it as friends because im so confused as what to do because lying about having an ex seems a bit strange to me. do you guys think he has moved on or is he treating me as some rebound? thankss

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u/lovebug-07 — 11 days ago

Anyone not had their first love yet?

helloo im a girl waiting for my studies to be over to finally think about that relationship stuff, but seems like every guy/girl has already had their first love already 😭😭 and every guy that has had an ex, he’s still not over her but still goes into more relationships, why !!! 🫠

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u/lovebug-07 — 11 days ago

How much are you studying?

I’ve always been a last minute studier (studying a day or two before) and usually get average marks (70/80s) and yes Im stressed for the leaving cert but since theres no urgency im finding it hard to study 😭😭 any advice pls im going for around 480 points

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u/lovebug-07 — 14 days ago

Sorry this is more of a vent, I feel like God had such set and amazing plans for me when I was younger, I was rooted in my faith, so religious, had a good relationship with everyone etc. But now I look around and I see no worth in myself. I look at my friends and realise Im way below average in looks - You guys might say I’m glazing them but I’m not. I have pcod which even makes me look like a man. Im not really religious anymore. I stopped because God didn’t answer me but I know i just need faith and I need to keep going but I physically can’t for some reason. My friends prayers are answered so quickly. If not quickly they’re answered very clearly. They have a great relationship with God, but I’m falling behind. I’m average in studies too, I don’t fail but Im not the top of my class either. I don’t even have crazy family problems which kind of make me feel worse about me complaining. I just can’t help thinking “why.” I honestly don’t see why I should keep living, I promised myself I wouldn’t do anything stupid because Im young and hopefully it’ll get better soon, even if not, why not linger around on earth anyway, but still..I feel like I’m gonna break that promise soon. I know it’s a sin to think that way but I don’t know what to do, I just feel so helpless and lazy :(

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u/lovebug-07 — 18 days ago

I got a conditional offer up north in ulster university and I rlly wanna go there but I heard someone say they only check your best 4/5 subjects instead of your total points, is that true? What’s the study plan? I’d also just like to meet some of ye prospective uu students too :)

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u/lovebug-07 — 22 days ago