u/m09nika

me (f16) and 7 friends (f16-17) were planning a bali trip right after exams, originally we had confirmed** **21–28 nov so we wouldn’t overlap with leavers. we were planning on booking last weekend, but my friend left it until that day to ask her dad and he said no and that she can only go from the 23rd onwards because of our exams and he thinks she won’t be focused on study and instead focus on packing.

i wouldn’t mind going from 23 onwards, however, my parents won’t let me go later because it would mean being in canggu during leavers, which they find unsafe. it is also influenced by the fact that some people in my friend group drink and one of them was so drunk at our ball after that she got kicked out and had to go home, so my parents don’t rly trust my friends.

also my dad is getting annoyed that the whole group chat is super slow/chaotic with planning.

now i honestly don’t even want to go anymore but feel awkward backing out. should i just say i’m not going or say i’m thinking of not going?
i was thinking of just saying idk if i rly want to go anymore like idk if i can do group travel it’s too stressful….

and also i know we’re like 6 months ahead but the next 6 months are like the busiest with tests and exams so i think we should plan as early as we can..?

but would i be overreacting if i don’t go just because they are disorganised?