u/magentalore

I don’t know what else it could be.
I had my boyfriend take my card to pull out money from my bank account so we could pay the rent ( no online payment portal where we are at.)
He immediately returned my card to me after this. This was all on the night of June 30th.
Fast forward to today. I see a $3.25 payment to McDonalds in Orange County, CA? And then moments after that a pending payment for Dicks Sporting goods for $81 but it’s pending for July 4th??? ( also in Orange County, Ca)
I live in San Diego which is like an hour and half away from there. I have tires to Orange County, I grew up there but moved when I was 8, not sure if that info even matters but I really need to figure this out so that’s why I’m mentioning it.
The man who helped me block my card let me know that whoever used my card at McDonalds had to of had my card, now wether that means physically or through a phone’s wallet, I didn’t think to ask in that moment so I don’t know. My card is in my phone case ( it’s a wallet too) as we speak. I have not been separated from it since my boyfriend returned it to me the other night.
What did ask was if it was possible that my boyfriend added it to his wallet. To which he told me yes it’s possible but he would have needed to initiate permission from them ( my bank) to be able to add it to his wallet. And that’s done all through my phone number. I never received any alerts for that.
My only thought is he sold my info. Guy from my bank doesn’t know how it could be anything else.
What is going on? Please help.

Update: I understand that it’s obvious that I shouldn’t be with someone I do not trust and I should never give my card to someone else no matter who they are. But it happened. Just here to understand what could have happened, not interested in talking about what I’m thinking in regard to personal life. I’m not mad, I’m more mad at myself so please don’t think I’m coming for those who have commented about that. it’s fair, I understand. It’s just not what my post is about.

I am 10 weeks pregnant. Never had a miscarriage before. I think I’m having one now, I’m currently waiting to be seen.

Looking to hear words of encouragement and positive outcomes despite this heavy bleeding. I have no pads and the blood is seeping through my leggings. Using a sweatshirt to cover it.

I am preparing for the worst news.

My boyfriend lives an hour and a half away so I’m doing this on my own right now.

Update: hey everyone, thank you all of your stories and words of encouragement. Unfortunately the baby did pass on.

I can’t seem to get my permanent hardship transfer request approved. I worry it is an about tenure. I am a top performer at my site so I would assume I’m eligible if I have decent rate, in addition to no write ups or interactions.

I am currently 8 weeks pregnant and living in my car. Living in my car by choice to abolish my debt which I’m happy to say I have done so and save up as much as I can for my own place. I am from Oregon, and I’m having a difficult time finding housing due to income requirements needing to match 3 months rent. Even though I am debt free now, I don’t make much at Amazon, like most of us but it’s been a good enough job to keep me afloat so I appreciate that.

Baby’s dad is located in San Diego and would like to move me in considering circumstances.

Obviously my financial and personal problems are not Amazon’s concerns, but I have applied for multiple sites in San Diego and applied for each schedule they had posted available, especially the overnight shifts which usually has high turner over or isn’t the more desired shift.

I have applied twice and I am still being denied. Even after giving my reasons.

I am denied without any explanation since it is an automatic response, but I wish more than anything I could know why. Are the available schedules not up to date? Is this a tenure related thing? What criteria am I missing (if any) to be denied? I can’t upload my confirmation of pregnant note from my OBGYN since there is no where to upload that on the permanent hardship transfer page, unless someone reached out to me via e-mail to request it but that has not happened. So I am at a loss.

I had a lovey gal from HR that took my call this evening and spent 45 minutes looking into it for me and trying to get a hold of a specialist to see what they can do for me, but they were not available seeing it’s the end of the day, but she told me I should be contacted by someone in 24 hours. I hope it can go somewhere this time.

Anyone else struggle to get a hardship transfer but eventually had it approved?

Again, these are my personal circumstances that do not need to be accommodated but I figured if schedules were available and the need to transfer was great enough, it would come to fruition one way or another.