Im a minor and my parents are forcing me to pay a big dental bill

Hi, I, f17, have recently found out that I have cavities, and I need to get them filled. Im obviously pretty scared, as they're my first ones, but I'm almost more upset with what my mother told me today. I'm pretty much freshly 17, turned in July, and my mother today told me that I needed to pay for my fillings and appointment overall. I am still entirely under my parents care at the moment, and I do not have a job and am quite disabled. I have many chronic issues preventing me from doing much, including even eating or drinking most times, and my severe depressive state for two years made my cavities develop (my parents never treated me for depression despite treating my younger sister for it). The point is, I physically cannot pay what they are asking, which is about two hundred dollars. I can't get a job in such a short amount of time, especially considering I didn't graduate nor do I have a car. My parents have said I either do that or do a large list of chores around the house that they know I am physically incapable of doing. I dont want to sound rude or entitled, but I am aware that they are not financially lacking, and we are very well off in regards to Healthcare, yet they (primarily my mom) insists that I must be the one to pay. I have zero clue what to do and I am incredibly stressed out.

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u/makonauticaa — 3 hours ago

is it normal for a tooth to be wiggly after the dentist?

I just went to the dentist yesterday, and my front, upper tooth is particularly wiggly. Not enough to be seen visually as far as I know, but when I wiggle it with my finger it is very obvious that there is more than a bit of movement. I'm really scared about this tooth; am I going to lose it?? ​

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u/makonauticaa — 10 hours ago

im scared for my fillings

Hi I'm 17 and I pretty much just got out of the doctors office finding out that I apparently have 2 cavities on my molar teeth, and one front tooth that needs to be covered because of decalcification. I haven't ever had any dental issues, much less straight up cavities. I have really horrible health anxiety especially when it comes to my dental health and I have absolutely no clue how getting cavities fixed works or feels; I'm honestly horrified and scared right now, and I'm truthfully freaking out. Does anyone have experience with fillings?? Does it hurt??

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u/makonauticaa — 14 hours ago

got curious and looked at my teeth.. is this normal??

for reference Im 17 almost 18, and have went to the dentist all my life. I struggle with brushing my teeth mainly because I'm autistic and I cant stand the feeling of brushing. I've noticed a lot of white on the bottoms of my teeth, but they arent in any pain nor are they sensitive. I have problems with demineralization of my teeth; is this just demineralization, or something else?

u/makonauticaa — 1 day ago