u/markymarc2343
Hey, I’m looking to join a community for book discussions, any Discords out there
Looking to meet some new people, and have a good book discussion.
No fap day 42 observations
Ok , I told myself that I wouldn’t make another post until like day 60 but I’ve been drinking, so I guess I will treat this like a journal. It’s a guy on here that’s makes really rational posts on no fap, that I whole heartedly agree with. He normally disputes all the mythological benefits attached to no fap, such as magnetic attraction for example, but it’s one thing I just can’t agree with, something in me, when I’m on no fap makes me want to dominate every area of my life.
My rational brains want’s to dispute those claims of semen retention, but why do I feel more like such a warrior when I abstain? That’s a question for that Reddit user if he comes across this post.
Also on last post I made, it was a guy that commented on me having gf and still being addicted porn. I want you to know ever addict doesn’t have a problem with women, my area of struggle is deep connection past the three year mark, meaning I want to be sexually attracted to my wife after four years of the same sexual partner. My porn addiction limits me from long lasting connection sir.
Edit: Talking to women is a skill like everything else in life just put yourself out there, and talk to them like they’re human. Either they will like you or not, love yourself either way.
No fap day 42 observations
Ok , I told myself that I wouldn’t make another post until like day 60 but I’ve been drinking, so I guess I will treat this like a journal. It’s a guy on here that’s makes really rational posts on no fap, that I whole heartedly agree with. He normally disputes all the mythological benefits attached to no fap, such as magnetic attraction for example, but it’s one thing I just can’t agree with, something in me, when I’m on no fap makes me want to dominate every area of my life.
My rational brains want’s to dispute those claims of semen retention, but why do I feel more like such a warrior when I abstain? That’s a question for that Reddit user if he comes across this post.
Also on last post I made, it was a guy that commented on me having gf and still being addicted porn. I want you to know ever addict doesn’t have a problem with women, my area of struggle is deep connection past the three year mark, meaning I want to be sexually attracted to my wife after four years of the same sexual partner. My porn addiction limits me from long lasting connection sir.
Edit: Talking to women is a skill like everything else in life just put yourself out there, and talk to them like they’re human. Either they will like you or not, love yourself either way.
Day 36 no fap observations
So one of the benefits Ive noticed is no brain fog, and when I tell I had not noticed how much brain fog affected my decision making. Even when I get in arguments with my gf I used to literally feel mentally block and a lot of my points I would just draw a blank. With the lift of the brain fog I find myself being more assertive in all situations, it’s actually fascinating to believe in your decision making without the mental block. Porn really makes you a docile man in my opinion. Stay strong fellas 💪🏿