u/married_to_a_reddito

I know that I can take the death certificate to the dmv and transfer it to my name and get a new title. I am able to drive his car with a combination of his phone and the key that’s a card. But how do I switch his car to an app on my phone? Do I need to inform Rivian? What is there I NEED to know that I probably don’t already know (considering I never drove it and he was a quiet, contemplative sort who didn’t share much)? I feel closer to him in that car. He loved it. He named it. He customized it. And now it’s something that reminds me of the good times.

Any advice for finding out if we owed money on it?

Sorry, this post is all over the place. I haven’t been my most logical recently.

My husband just passed away 1 week and 1 day ago. I’ve been barely hanging on. I was searching through his laptop for documents and came across porn. This is shattering my fragile peace had. He was 43 so I assumed it happened, but downloaded? I don’t know why this is killing me. I am a chubby 40 year old who is clearly aging. This has got me spiraling. I’m not even sure what I’m asking for. I just never thought I’d find this. Not now, anyway. He’s not here to reassure me I’m beautiful just how I am, or that he loves me, or that I’m enough. I’m alone.