F34 (F4A) #California
Hi, Let's start with the basics. I am looking for a long term life partner and am strictly monogamous. I like all genders, trans and non-conforming included. I fall under demisexual so I take things physically and emotionally slow. I have done extremely long distance before but have no real desire for that anymore. Looking for someone who lives within an hour or two (give or take) within driving distance of me now.
I am kink friendly and though that's not a requirement for my partner it is definitely a plus. My partner must love dogs. They are a huge part of my work life and personal life.
I am a published author working on my second book and a petcarer/dog trainer (though I don't do near as much of this as I used to). I am an avid reader (mostly fiction), gamer (both video games, board games and strategy card games when I can find another player), used to play d and d, and just am a general nerd in anything animals. I am passionate and creative.
I am looking for someone who is confident, calm, who can be my rock when the world gets a little unsteady, who is compassionate and sympathetic, who craves to understand not just me but the world, who wants to learn, who doesn't mind listening to me babble, who has ambitions and works of self improvement even if sometimes it takes a while to happen. Its the act of trying that matters to me.
I like watching crime dramas and cooking competitions in the background when I am relaxing. I enjoy cooking. I enjoy relaxing at home. I walk a ton for work, but still land on the heavy/curvy side. Ummm any questions feel free to ask?