u/maxeniaaa

28F trying my luck here.

Hi! First of all, I am not from bangalore. I am from the Philippines. Born and raised here in PH. 100% filipina.

As you can see, I have brown fever. I have a liking towards Indian culture and men.

It all started with a love scam. Lol.

Anyway, I still have my hopes up high.

I will pin my dating resume on my profile, please visit it. Its probably the second post.

Just trying my luck. It doesn't hurt to try.

See you in my DMs.

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u/maxeniaaa — 12 days ago

28 [F4M] Anywhere/Online - I want to be devoted to you.

Hey there. It's me again. In another account. For some reason, I am here again and you've guessed it right. I haven't found the person for me yet. India has a billion people. It's so hard to find a guy who's fits my standards. Anyway. Before you continue reading. I am not from India. I live in the Philippines. And I am a Filipina. I post here because honestly, I have -ehem ehem- brown fever. I love the culture of your country. Hopefully I find a soul or a guy here that would match my wavelength.

I'm Max, 28, living in the city of Metro Manila, and I don't mind LDR. I believe it could be worked around. Besides, LDR is about making the distance feel close. 

I do a lot. I'm a resident DJ, paint, write, make jewelry, and occasionally dabble in leatherwork. I like to play games once in a while. I used to practice martial arts. I'm probably a jack of all trades with way too many hobbies, but music is the one constant in my life.

So I am in therapy, and last week, my therapist and I discussed what type of relationship am I looking for. And recently, I've reflected. I don't want commitment. And marriage is something that is on my list but is not a priority.

Then what do I want?

In all honesty?

I want a m\*\*herf\*cking handsome guy for me who's perfect and has no flaws. 

Okay, I'm just kidding with you. 

I don't expect you to be perfect, I don't want to expect anything from you because when I do, that's when heartbreaks starts in most relationships.

So what is it? What do I TRULY want?

I want devotion. I want companionship. If there is a need and chance to be in a lovely marriage in the future, then be it. 

I want someone who would embrace me in motion. I want someone who has an open mind and patient mind. Someone who is also understanding. Someone who knows when to be serious and when to be funny. Someone who knows his boundaries. And most of all, someone who is confident and knows how to love himself.

Most of all, to be loved without judgement.

Imagine me and you, in the future, old. Probably tired from life, in the countryside. Just wanting to spend the remaining time we have for each other. I paint, you do your hobby, we toast, kiss.

We dance, have fun, grow old together, just the two of us.

Would you love that?

So here are my non-negotiables.

  1. I want you to be child-free. I can't bear a child in this world. I am Bipolar and Borderline. I don't want my kid to experience what I have to experience.

  2. Non-vegetarian.

  3. You can smoke and drink since I do too. 

  4. Age. 26-35 only.

  5. I have tattoos and piercings.

I know, most of them are deal-breakers. But I am not in a rush to find someone. I am also okay with starting as friends but with the intentions of companionship in the future. I can always post again when I feel like it. 

If you resonate with this post. Send me a message. Low effort messages would be ignored.

To break the ice, tell me something about you that is only unique to you.

And also, answer this question in our dms.

"If devotion had a dance, what song would it be?"

To be embraced in motion is what I dream of.

See you in my DMs.  

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u/maxeniaaa — 1 month ago