u/maybegirl89

Im 5 years into transition, and most of the time I can be misgendered and I can have it roll off without getting to me.

Sometimes like today someone will just casually give me a "sir"... and to no fault of their own cause im sure my voice is just undoubtedly masculine. It's this sort of effortless way of being identified wrongly that especially stings... like after all of my progress and thinking im getting somewhere, it's quickly taken by the simple fact that some people do not see me and they have to be the reminder that surgery was probably my best bet for not being misgendered but thats never gonna happen cause im poor. Now im sad and wanting to know how to not let this eat me from the inside out?