u/mei1284

had the most caring, loving, understanding man possible and i genuinely loved him so much and i could say with conformity that he loved me more till i found this.

A few days ago he sent me a screenshot of his post history on reddit (related to something else- how he was so stressed for his exam and made continuous posts for study material and stuff)

Obviously it had his username in it. So curiosity got the best of me and I took a peek (it's going where you think but 5 times worse).

His activity was hidden but I got an NSFW warning when I opened his account. Made me uneasy REAL QUICK but i thought it might be vague stuff that often gets flared as nsfw. Fine.

But I just couldn't set it aside, why would he post NSFW stuff at all? (His account is newer than our relationship)

I went on some websites to find out what he's been posting on reddit and found out he'd been commenting on r*pe kink subreddits saying he wanted to ...yeah you know what. It not only broke my heart it disgusted me. He's the SWEETEST guy. How is this even happening?

The worst part is this particular subreddit is banned so I can't even access the actual posts. Just his comments.

I thought the website was tripping, so I used another and then another...nope. same username, same OP, same comments word to word, same date. One website even opened the comment thread for me.

He's asleep right now. He has no idea I have this. I have zero clue what i should even do.

Edit: I'm getting a lot of comments on where I think this is cheating, i had set my boundaries very clearly even before we got into a relationship that I am not comfortable with him watching porn, engaging with others online or entertaining somebody. And he went ahead and did all the three.

Genuinely how is sexually engaging with someone else is not cheating? Porn has ruined you all.

Feels almost stupid to ask but i CRAVE a jazz-y place

Idk if this is the right sub but I'll just post it here, please be humane.

Ts is just not worth it.

For context, I work in a startup with the founder as an intern and the team is so fucking ominous and off putting.

It's just pure panic and anxiety for the whole 8 hours it lasts.

The majority of the management in the corporate world tends to always point out what you're doing wrong or where the people are fumbling while they forget that these people literally carry mountains of work on their backs.

I cry 3-4 times a day, it hurts so much that I feel it in my entire body, I'm miserable. And I don't think I'll go on like this for much longer.

Hi guys, i have a quick question.

Is it worth pursuing data analytics if i don't have a tech/math degree? I have a BBA and I'm willing to learn.

I'm just wondering if it's worth even following or if I'm setting myself up for a job search failure

I was selected for a founder's office role at a startup and when i contacted them the role was "operations based" but then they reached back to me a few days after and explained that I'll have to hire people for a new sales team via phone interviews and maintain the gc.

Basically an HR for a few weeks (it's a "dynamic" role)

I made 50+ calls in the span of 7 hours and they kept giving me more people to interview (on call) it was my first day😭.

Is this normal guys? Or am i stuck at one of those abusive startups

What do we feel about unpaid internships?

I'm being offered one, and it's my first internship but it's 4 months long. I don't know how to feel about this. Experienced folks please drop your views

So i applied for my first ever internship and got a call back from one of them, and during the call I asked them how long the internship would be, and she said:

"2-3 months, well, 2-3 months initially"

Should I be worried? It's a paid internship.

Hey guys, I'm learning power bi from scratch and I'd love to know how to go on about this, even roughly.

I want to be effective enough that I can market this skill confidently one day. Any advice would be appreciated.

I'm a woman, before anyone asks lol. I didn't even know people here use reddit😭

It felt like Bareilly was still stuck in the tiktok era but I'm hoping we've overcome that.

So lmkkk

Edit: bhai what's with the aggression in the comments? I don't think I've even said anything to get such responses.

And I am a "leftist" guys. I believe in equal rights for women and an I'm egalitarian. I love economics and nature, I indulge in politics sometimes too. I don't shy away from disagreeing with the right wing (or anyone really) and I get along with people who think for themselves instead of forming an opinion based on what people around them think.