u/memories786

I'm F 19 female and I have a boyfriend 21/M

And we are studying in same class

Some of the classmate girls are sitting opposite us and I know it's completely normal to look classmate not like staring but we all look but he keeps staring them for few seconds and this had been a pattern and I don't know what to do so I asked him and he said he is just saying at them and looking what they're doing but I don't feel it right tell me guys is that right what he said

Hi I'm 19 female and I'm going to say about my relationship with my boyfriend 21 male

We both loves each other very much

But I will say something which he told me and let me know what's right okay ?

One night while we were in call talking he said ok enough for today we can go to sleep and I said ok and we said few words and hung up but suddenly I missed him and called again and I talked a bit more but he just want to hang up and go to sleep and he continuously says bye and that makes me furious and sad so I can't hung up but later he asked me DON'T YOU HAVE SHAME ON DISTURBING HIM AND HIS MOM

And another time he said

HE THINK MARRYING ME IS NOT A GOOD IDEA

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HE ONLY HAS A DOG'S VALUE TO ME AND IM A DOG INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID IT BECAUSE OF MY CONTINUOUS CALLS

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One day while he's working at late night I'm worried and I called him and told him to drink water while stressing but he said I'm a burden to him at that time

One day after fight or something he said he doesn't know if I have some mental problems or not

And and another day he said after talking in call if talking time had finished don't call or tell him anything even if it is about dying

I'm 19 and studying girl

Can we have a pm to talk about our stories

I prefer girls and womens

Well I will tell everything about me

And I have a boyfriend and we were in a relationship I need to know whether I'm toxic or not

I don't like another girls touching him I don't like him eating same piece of chocolate by his colleague women and I don't like when we were talking in a call when he has lunch time at work and a co-worker women hears our talks and tries to talk in the call about some advices , and he will look few seconds at classmate girls and look what they were doing I don't feel it right and he didn't even look at me , he gave his ig to a women he met at airport I don't really like it and it makes me feel awkward etc am I toxic or controlling .

I'm 19 and my life has been worst, I have a boyfriend 1 year and 6 months relationship he's happy with my love but he's not happy with my character I know everyone's character won't be better actually I have trust issues and nowadays when I tries to trust him he will make me know not to trust him like me and him are studying accounting and we're in same class while looking after his phone and hearing his voice send to a colleague where he work he suddenly took his phone away I asked why and he told me it's because I'm hearing it again and again but I've only heard that voice for the first time and in that voice he's calling that colleague women "mister" but not in a respected way but too friendly, and one day when we were talking at night after his work time is almost 12:00 that colleague women called him but he didn't see or hear can't attend the call at that time but she send a voice about asking did everyone got off work and my boyfriend said yeah but I feel like this is not necessary because there's no need to call and talk at night anyway I don't really take it seriously but when he needs to go to same shop like he's working I also went there and he's talking to a unknown women who works there's like friendly near trial room and that way they were talking really looks awkward and one day he messaged his old classmate to mention him in a photo and he deleted that chat with her before I see

Is this all my problems or ?

I'm a girl who needs love more than anything else from my boyfriend but he is just like Ignoring me he always look after his friends reel which they send it to him and he watch the reel he will react he will also reply to his friends about those reels but he isn't even looking my chat which I've send reels he won't react won't watch and he won't even reply or like and the another thing is when he's calling and talking to me and at that time when someone calls or messages or send reels to him he would reply suddenly but when he's with others when I did the same he won't attend my calls won't reply etc and our relationship is almost 1 year 6 months however until now I just want to talk to him sometimes a lot and when I started talking he sometimes looks his phone or sometimes go to sleep or etc but I've always wanted someone to hear me but I don't know what to do

Is it necessary for me to react to someone just like my boyfriend's cousin when he asked me where is my boyfriend and I don't know where he is so I said I don't know without talking and I said it by actions in my face

After that because of my reaction my boyfriend is getting very angry , and one more thing when I called his cousin brother "excuse me " my boyfriend got really angry and said to me will anyone ask someone excuse me if they know well and he scolded me with words