Looking for advice for struggling kid
Hi all, I browsed and searched and read all I could everywhere online. I'm looking for advice.
my kid is 7, repeated kinder twice and was forced into 1st grade. he's in after school speech and ot twice a week, and ABA twice a week. he has an IEP for speech, ot, and "special education" to help with reading and handwriting for a total of 2 hours a week. he's diagnosed autism 1.
He cannot read. He can barely recognize letters, and the ones he does know take a few seconds to register. I've been reading to him almost daily since he was born. we've done sight words. we've done letters on flashcards. Bob books. tested for everything under the sun. he's on level in math, can tell you anything about insects or the moon, but cannot read. we have an hour daily limit on screens, and most days are zero screen time. I've followed every single rule to teach your kid to read and it's like teaching a brick wall. Local teachers point out that most 7 year olds are struggling but I'm just stuck because I know I "did everything right" and nothing has worked. does anyone have any unconventional ideas? things that have worked on the students struggling most? I'm in a very rural, very poor area and I'm so close to pulling him for homeschool, upping his ABA, and focusing mostly on reading, because no one outside of his ABA program is taking me seriously about it!
I don't want to hound his teacher, she doesn't get paid enough for the work she's doing and I know she can't give just one kid special treatment, but I'm just at an absolute loss on how to help me son. please help.