u/millenial_probs

Alpha strength class

Is the alpha strength class beginner friendly? I don’t have much experience doing traditional strength training (I mostly do Pilates/solidcore/barrys) but appreciate that traditional strength training is very important for muscle building. I have never really lifted a barbell in my life. Should I be ok at an alpha strength class?

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u/millenial_probs — 4 days ago
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My bf (37M) and I (32F) are looking to move in together and also get engaged soon. He makes around 400k and I make around 180k a year. He wants to split the rent 50:50 which I was on board with initially. The apartments that he is interested in cost 6k+ a month - 2 bedroom where one of the rooms would be his office with an extra daybed (which is my idea) for when we have visitors. I can situate my desk in the living room or the main bedroom (wherever I find space). He offered to front the security deposit. Am I getting ripped off? I also feel like paying 3k in rent is a reach for me with the money I am currently making. Deep down inside I’m a little sad that he didn’t offer to pay a higher percent of the rent even if I would’ve always split equally. I brought it up to him - it turned into an argument and I ended up calling him a selfish person. AITA? Should I apologize to him?

EDIT: the extra room is off the hook. We will both be using the office equally

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u/millenial_probs — 23 days ago