my rats usually run around crazy cause they’re quite young. recently i’ve found a spot that makes them go still and calm when i scratch it. any reason for this? do them like this or does it hurt? also my rats have different spots that they stay still for, for one it’s when her side is getting scratches, and the other stays still and boggles when i scratch her cheek.
TLDR does my rat like this?
there’s this person i like and we’re both queer which kind of plays into this a lot. we both talk about a show that we watch ( heated rivalry ) and other things but mostly queer and gender related things. we do have deep convos sometimes and we text almost daily. they said that they could see themselves more with women than with men, and i am a pretty femme presenting butch / masc lesbian. i think they are bi, but they could be on the ace spectrum too, so how do i go about sharing my interest in them without making it weird? i think we are pretty compatible, and we hung out for the first time today, but they invited another friend with them, which is okay, but how do i initiate more intimate things with them? even if they don’t like me the way i want them to, are there any tips on becoming better friends? i am neurodivergent and i have bpd so i have trouble with friends because i always want it to be a super deep relationship. i hate shallow connection. what can i do? can anyone share any hangout ideas or flirting tips? i am a minor btw so please keep that in mind!