Post cleft lift surgery question

I’m 1 day post op and he put an ace wrap around me to “keep the cheeks together”. I like having the support but what i’m VERY worried about is when I inevitably have to go to bathroom. It feels like the wrap ends just above my anus which makes me nervous. He purposely didn’t give me a stool softener I guess in the hopes that I wouldn’t have to for the next 5 days before the first dressing change. What’s everyone else’s experience like?

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u/mirrorball1215 — 3 days ago

Cleft lift surgery tomorrow- so anxious!

I’m not a fan of hospitals and i’m just a very anxious person in general. If anyone has any reassuring stories or experiences regarding this surgery please tell me about them. I’m so nervous about the recovery and the drain and not being able to sit. I am definitely the kind of person that if there is something to worry about, I will not only worry, but also let it consume me. Any tips help!

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u/mirrorball1215 — 5 days ago
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I haven't done a study with my camera or mic yet. What is it like?

I just recently started doing studies on prolific and I guess I'm a bit camera shy despite it being run by AI. I think if i have a better understanding of what to expect, I'll be less nervous to do my first one. Any info/ advice is appreciated!!

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u/mirrorball1215 — 2 months ago

Just got off the waitlist and am finally starting. Any advice?

I’m a disabled person with a lot of time on my hands so i’m wondering how I can get the most out of this to be able to contribute to my household instead of feeling like a burden all the time. Any tips are appreciated :)

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u/mirrorball1215 — 2 months ago
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I (26F) am considering going to a residential treatment facility with the main focus being on OCD and depression. I have no substance abuse issues so that's not something I need to factor in. I'm in the Chicagoland area but honestly I would travel anywhere if needed. Any recommendations?

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u/mirrorball1215 — 2 months ago