u/mms2114

How is everyone’s baby sleeping?

mine sleeps about 12 hours at night with one wake up. my husband seems to think we’re doing something wrong cause she still wakes up. is anyone else still have a wake up?

is it wrong to leave my husband because of his mental health issues?

my (35F) husband (35m) has some mmental health flare ups that I don’t think I can tolerate anymore but I feel bad leaving because he is fine other times. he claims it’s because he’s depressed but I can’t stand the way he acts anymore at any mild change in our lives. for example last weekend we were supposed to go do something with friends and our friends canceled. I asked him if he was okay staying home he said yes. then about an hour later he was walking around the house crying and thorwing things because the plans changed. he then yells at me and tells me it’s my fault and I ruin his days and goes on about what a horrible person I am. this type of thing happens at any mild change, like our daughter napping later than usual or if she has to go the bathroom longer than normal. my husband realized that his reactions were causing issues so he is in therapy. He informed me that his therapist yold him his reactions are fine because it’s just how he feels and i should not be suppressing his feelings. so now he feels like he can have these huge reactions and treat me like crap because his therapist said its normal. I feel bad leaving because as a family we’re okay but I can’t stand when he acts like this and I cannot make sure our lives go exactly as he wants