u/monsteraleef

bear has been my favorite artist for about a decade since i saw him open for FOB. rlly got me through some tough times. but as a woman and an abuse survivor, its genuinely a slap in the face to read the allegations and court documents. all i can really say is that im disappointed and disheartened in him, especially with the lack of comments he has made on the situation.

TLDR: was a longtime blackbear fan before the allegations, now have him blocked on spotify

edit : don’t downvote just cus u don’t believe the victim. if you don’t believe victims u can just say that

i started stretching my lobes slowly in 2022, starting at 12g from original lobes. i’ve been dead stretching with single flairs. i followed monthly guidelines and only stretched when it felt ready. then my ears stuck at 7g for about 18 months. just recently made it to 6.

how long did ur stretching journey take u and where are u at now? my goal is 00ish.