u/motorhead383

Isnt that freakin nuts!

Nice to get some vindiction after she made all these claims i was terrible.

I do feel bad for her though and our son whos only 4.5

So now i gotta choose to wait for her to get out of this ward she is in, and go back to our old arrangement 70/30 her having primary custody

Or

File for full custody of my 4.5 yr old son

Ultimately ill do whats best for my son what would you do? I know i have a good case.

And

What the hell did she do to end up in a ward with no cellphone access wtf?

**I need to vent. I’m currently the cfo of my family—**
**handling the 50+ hour work weeks in finance, the mortgage, the laundry, and the kids so my partner can crush nursing school. I’m all in. I want us to be successful, and I know we will be. But man, the bedroom is feeling pretty lonely lately.**
**My partner is 6 months sober today, which is great for her. But between the sobriety, the brutal nursing clinical rotations, and a new baby, our intimacy has completely flatlined since February.**
**I think I finally found the culprit: her current medication cocktail.**
**She’s on Trintellix (5mg),**
**Zepbound (GLP-1),**
**Hydroxyzine (10mg),**
**and Clonidine (.1mg).**
**• The Result: She is exhausted, "blah," and has zero "sex thirst" despite having a high drive before all this. We would go at it and anal sometimes, shes got one of those superpussys that squeezes you, and i loved eating her out till she gushed in my mouth. Now nothing. Not since pregnancy. That sex was hot btw.**
**• The Side Effects: She’s dealing with heavy night sweats and total mental drain after her exams.**
**It’s a brutal cycle. I’m out here grinding to provide but I feel like a roommate.**
**I’m trying to be the stable pillar, but when I get hit with "stonewalling" or "score-keeping" because I’m 30 minutes late, it’s hard not to look back at old notes from when things were toxic and feel that resentment.**
**I’m currently wide awake at 3:00 AM because I took a Vyvanse at her suggestion—bad move on my part—so now I’m overcloked while she’s sedated.**
**I am avoiding talking to other women at all but ngl its a lil hard. Ive been jerking it thinking about my hot wifey lying in bed next to her.**
**I love her, she’s amazing, and she’s working so hard. I know this is just a season of "survival mode," but the lack of intimacy is a thirst that’s hard to ignore when you’re carrying this all and doing everything she asks.**