Is my and my boyfriends relationship one-sidedly open? F(23)M(24)
So me(F23) and (M24) had decided a while ago to open our relationship. This happened because i am an exotic dancer as well as we always wanted to explore other people, so i have clients and (M24) wasn’t messing with anyone.
Eventually he asked for a threesome for a little while it made me feel uneasy because even tho i have clients i didnt want him left out. Tho for me is it bussiness, old guys and for him a threesome is pure pleasure. In work i get no pleasure! Eventually i agreed and we had a few FMF threesomes. After our first threesome my fantasy of 2 males was made known!
But ive always always wanted a MFM! My boyfriends feels he can not give me a threesome with 2 guys because he feels he loves me very much and cant see another guy getting it on with me. To overprotective, selfish and maybe insecure.
I wonder why? Is it because he knows when im working im not interested in that person , a in a 3way id b attracted to that person? What yall think?
Should i end threesomes all together? Ive always had this fantasy and feel comfortable with my boyfriend(M24). The thoughts and wants dont go away and i dont wanna make him uncomfortable at any moment so ive backed away from the topic but the pain of the idea of 2 men id likee to actually enjoy is right in my heart! Advice?
u/msprettylady1 — 4 days ago