u/mtndewwhore87

she bit me again and got so apologetic about it and freaked out and almost cried bc she previously said she wouldnt do it again. I told her it was okay because change doesnt happen overnight. is it true?

I dont understand.

we had a no sex rule but of course the day she comes over we end up having sex again. i dont know.

I had another post here.

we talked about it and she said sorry and that she would bring it up in therapy.

she started chewing on me lightly today (not bites until I asked) and I just gave up and let her fully bite me.

she said we would talk about it but she slept over and left and we didnt talk. as usual if I want to bring something up I have to be the one to do it. why didnt she bring it up? I was waiting all night for her to. im so confused. she bought me treats and a fan and snacks and stuff but no conversation??? bc we brought up separating but I guess she didnt want to talk about that??

oh yea and a few days ago she smothered me with a blanket as a joke but I was trying to get out bc I couldn't breathe but couldn't but when I told her she was horrified and asked why I didn't tap her to let her know and I didnt know I was supposed to. she was horrified.

I have my other post up and unprivated on my profile bc I don't wanna rehash everything here

idk what to do i am ao sad about this whole thing, she does these tiny things that upset me but acts so nice and sweet

Hello, 20f.

Tw for rape + miscarriage mentions.

I am seriously considering cutting off my dad 45(?)m and stepmother 40f, and would like outsider povs, and to see if anyone else has gone thru something similar.

They've been together since i was 13/14 for additional context.

They have been pretty emotional abusive and slightly physically abusive during my teenage years, and now that i do not live with them they have ramped up the cruelty i feel. My stepmother is very passive aggressive towards me, and my dad is complicit and lets her speak to me and my sisters in these ways.

I live with my mother, and am unemployed due to a foot issue/disability which has been affecting me since 2022, as well as intense mental health issues. So i have been on income support/social assistance for awhile now. (I do try to do art commissions as much as i can for income as well, it is just hard in the current climate.) They are of the belief that i am lazy, as they have said i am lazy numerous times to my sisters 17f and 14f, who live part time at their house, they like to talk badly about me to them which is so odd?. I have also received comments such as 'she's getting chunky." which feels completely inappropriate to tell my sisters who are children and uninvolved. They

I got raped recently and went thru a miscarriage and received little support from them, who i went to because theyre my parents???.

I instead got slut shamed for 'not using protection' (i was using an IUD, so yes i was.) and got told by my stepmother 'did we learn a lesson from this?" regarding my miscarriage. Which is horrifying? They also don't believe i have a disability with my foot?? saying i 'need better shoes' (which i got) and have been struggling with since 2022, and is why i had to quit my first job. I am sorry i can't do a '''normal'' job? They also don't 'believe' that i am autistic, which i am and should have been diagnosed as a child, but i wasn't.

They then quilt trip me by saying 'why don't you ever come to visit?" "your dad is SO sad and taking it personally" and stuff like that. I wonder WHY??? They feel very entitled to access to me.

I just am so tired of them acting like this towards me and want to know if anyone else has dealt with something like this?