u/mylittleponyfangirl1

i was peacefully falling asleep in the dark when i open my eyes to see something crawling just behind my bed. i become immediately terrified and reluctant to search. i turned the light on and began my scout after, but to no avail. i have broken electrical outlets on either side of my bed, so im assuming that it crawled back inside of them. i taped them up. HOWEVER, there is one other option. i have a bunk bed and on the top is where i keep my clothes.

could it be up there with them? i’m terrified and unnerved.

we were having a conversation on how we operate. i told him that i wanted to spend some more time alone because i feel like a shell of a person and i don’t want to be boring.

he told me i was isolating myself and proceeded to say, “So your plan is to sit inside, sleep when you please, binge eat and do nothing”

that deeply bothered me cause i did not have intentions to do that. and it felt like he was using sensitive information against me. i know that wasn’t his intention but i just don’t understand why or how he didn’t think that was a terrible thing to say.

we then had a conversation about his lack of empathy and how it’s difficult for me having a normal amount of empathy and knowing not to say things that would hurt another person while he does not and simply says whatever comes to mind.

i don’t know how this is supposed to work. i am incredibly sensitive and emotional and it is nearly impossible for him to place himself in my shoes

any advice?