u/myredditusername4u

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WWYD IF

Your daughter made friends w a girl in class, they hung out quite a bit. We moved away from the area, come to find out the friends brother was a registered sex offender. He didn’t shown up on the map bc it wasn’t “bad enough”. Daughter saying he was present often when she was around. Should I report to other friends moms?? I called his probation officer and confirmed he is not allowed to be around minors.

UPDATE: THANK YOU to everyone who replied. I reported this to his probation officer and DHS and I texted the moms of the other girls who soend tike over there.

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u/myredditusername4u — 1 day ago

Dishonesty re housing size?

Just notified that the person renting my house was dishonest re custody of a child to obtain a larger voucher. I looked up the laws in my county and it is pretty straightforward and clear that if you do not have the child more than 50% of the time you do not receive an extra bedroom for them. The custodial parent provided proof of full custody since 2023 with a new order pending the judges signing. I’m wondering how long it typically takes the HA to investigate? It doesn’t seem like there is much to investigate given the custody agreement. I am baffled that a single parent that does not work would jeopardize their housing assistance voucher by committing fraud this way?! I assume the HA will terminate her voucher as opposed to downsizing her voucher due to the willful ongoing dishonesty on her part?? What does she plan to do if the HA demands repayment? How does she expect to ever pay for a place to live again? Do the ladies in our local office that helped her and advocated for her get upset about this type of thing?

ETA: I AM NOT GETTING INVOLVED, HA has the paperwork and whatever they find they find. I was notified as a courtesy bc they knew my payments may ultimately be affected and didn’t want me to be caught off guard.

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u/myredditusername4u — 4 days ago