u/nakedwithoutearrings

What the f*** do I say to this message? Nothing?

What the f*** do I say to this message? Nothing?

We’re broken up and haven’t spoken in a month. He said it was “inappropriate” to be speaking and so I respected that. Now hit with this gem. He cheated on me in 2024, it ruined my life and I should have left but I wanted to try to work it out, he did nothing to fix it and then he cheated again. Did I put less effort into his fucking gifts over time? Yes. But he thinks I’m evil and disgusting (while simultaneously wishing me well).
Should I just say not to contact me again?

▲ 151 r/NameMyDog

Help me name my cattle dog mix!

Guidelines and fun facts about him:
- 1-2 syllables
- I tend to like words that are in another language, or inanimate objects/food, or western themed somehow but open to any ideas!
- He is a fun-loving dog who came up from Texas. Loves to play tug, has cattle dog intensity for play, will chirp when he wants you to throw the toy, huuuuge snuggler and loves to follow me around
- currently overweight because his last owner fed him cheeseburgers
- came with the name Hook because he was found with a fishhook in his mouth years ago when he was rescued

u/nakedwithoutearrings — 5 days ago

Learning to be OK being painted as the villain

We’ve been broken up for a bit now. I creeped on his reddit (bad habit, I shouldn’t). He wrote this long response to a Reddit post asking what the signs were that your partner didn’t love you anymore. Said a bunch of shit about how he knew I didn’t love him because my gifts were becoming “worse than nothing” and it was clear I was “spiteful” blah blah blah.

Even if that was correct (it’s not), that’s 5% of the story.

He cheated on me twice and I died inside. Was regularly disrespectful and mean. His Reddit comment doesn’t mention ANY of the things he did that led me to become a shell of a person. I should have left but didn’t. Then he exploded on me one day over a perceived slight and that’s what ended it.

I have to learn to be ok with the fact that he’s painting me as an insane villain out to get him. It makes my heart race to be so misunderstood.

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u/nakedwithoutearrings — 9 days ago